Something isn't right...

[NASCAR20FAN]

I really don't mean to ***** guys, but I'm soo tired! I've spent so much time and energy fighting the fact I need to file (almost 3 years now), and now I spend so much time fighting with creditors to get my reports cleaned up... I feel soo tired, and there is still so much more to come. It just seemw that I'm no doing anyhting right, and I really don't have anyone to talk to. So my load seem so much greater.

[FilingOnMyOwn]

Nascar, you are on the last lap of the process. Look forward, not in the rearview mirror. Think about what you will do to prevent it from happening again, not all the stuff that happened that you can no longer control.

[lrprn]

Nascar, it's very easy to convince yourself that you must go on this journey alone and that you're tough enough to do so. Are you absolutely sure that has to be case?

If you have even one trusted friend to vent with regularly and get ongiong support from, you won't feel so isolated. The boards here are absolutely wonderful and the regulars here are phenomenal, but at the end of the day, we still can't talk face to face and we don't know each other outside this part of our lives. Think about telling just one trustworthy person in your life that you are struggling financially - that person is likely to surprise you with their understanding and support. They might even shock you with a story of their own financial struggles and eventual bankruptcy - that happened to me when I told one of my friends.

Hang in there - we are here for you if you decide you just can't tell anyone else.

[anonymuse]

Nascar, we're all here for you. Do you use Yahoo! IM? My addy is in my profile.