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    Now that I am not paying the cc anymore i have extra money to spend so we go out to dinner and when i say out to diner i don't mean alot of money. for a family of 4 maybe 40.00. Will the trustee be pissed when they see that? Or should i just pay cash for the diner instead of using my debit/visa card? We aren't filing until sometime in sept or possibly oct.

    #2
    I'm sure the gurus will correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm thinking you could claim that as part of your entertainment. Since it's something special you don't do everyday.

    And it's not like you'll be buying $80 lobster dinners.
    FILED!: August 11, 2008 * Pre-Filing Fico Score - 643 * 341: October 8, 2008 * Last Day for Objections: December 7, 2008
    "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." -George Santayana

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      #3
      Originally posted by jessegirl View Post
      Now that I am not paying the cc anymore i have extra money to spend so we go out to dinner and when i say out to diner i don't mean alot of money. for a family of 4 maybe 40.00. Will the trustee be pissed when they see that? Or should i just pay cash for the diner instead of using my debit/visa card? We aren't filing until sometime in sept or possibly oct.
      If I knew it all, would I be here?? Hang in there = Retained attorney 8-06, Filed 12-28-07, Discharge 8-13-08, Finally CLOSED 11-3-09, 3-31-10 AP Dismissed, Informed by incompetent lawyer of CLOSED status, October 14, 2010.

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        #4
        Originally posted by Pinkie86 View Post
        I'm sure the gurus will correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm thinking you could claim that as part of your entertainment. Since it's something special you don't do everyday.

        And it's not like you'll be buying $80 lobster dinners.
        You are wrong and I'm not a Guru, but you are a kind contributor. GBWY 'Hub
        If I knew it all, would I be here?? Hang in there = Retained attorney 8-06, Filed 12-28-07, Discharge 8-13-08, Finally CLOSED 11-3-09, 3-31-10 AP Dismissed, Informed by incompetent lawyer of CLOSED status, October 14, 2010.

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          #5
          Just pay cash since you're worried about it.

          Enjoy your night out!

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            #6
            Originally posted by Pinkie86 View Post
            I'm sure the gurus will correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm thinking you could claim that as part of your entertainment. Since it's something special you don't do everyday.

            And it's not like you'll be buying $80 lobster dinners.

            This is how our attorney told us to classify this. So I guess that's ok. Like someone else said, nothing wrong with a little enjoyment even when you're in the middle of BK. I do know what you mean, we went to McDonalds, yes we have kids and besides I like it too and I almost felt guilty until our attorney said it's ok. You know this might be silly but if we skip "nicer" restaurants and go to McDonalds we can actually eat out once a week. We have a 10% discount card and we can have double cheeseburgers for .90, not bad! Anyway I think you'll be fine.
            Filed Chapter 7 June 4 ~ 341 July 20 ~Last day of objections Sept 18~Discharged/Closed Sept 21

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              #7
              My advice: If you go to a nice restaurant for whatever reason, be sensible. My daughter turned 9 today and she wanted to go to Olive Garden. (BIG $$$$ for us right now) We bought her and her little brother kid's meals, my DH and I split a meal for under $10. She got a free sundae (and a song ), and they brought my son one just to be nice. Free salad/ breadsticks. So, no big expense, but big fun all the same.
              "You can never get enough of what you don't need to make you happy."
              6/16/08: Attorney approached lenders to surrender old home
              8/26/08: Met w/attorney RE: filing BK
              9/29/08: Filing Chapter 7

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                #8
                Originally posted by Frogge View Post
                My advice: If you go to a nice restaurant for whatever reason, be sensible. My daughter turned 9 today and she wanted to go to Olive Garden. (BIG $$$$ for us right now) We bought her and her little brother kid's meals, my DH and I split a meal for under $10. She got a free sundae (and a song ), and they brought my son one just to be nice. Free salad/ breadsticks. So, no big expense, but big fun all the same.
                Perfect! Just goes to show you that if we want we can all have a little fun even if we are in BK!
                Filed Chapter 7 June 4 ~ 341 July 20 ~Last day of objections Sept 18~Discharged/Closed Sept 21

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                  #9
                  it's jsut me and DW sometimes it is cheaper to eat out.
                  Chapter 7 07/30/2008
                  341 09/17/2008
                  Discharge 11/21/2008

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by TEW View Post
                    it's jsut me and DW sometimes it is cheaper to eat out.
                    I've found the same thing, actually. My and my fiance's schedules are so different; I'm on a 7-5 schedule and he works 2nd or 3rd doing general contracting. It's actually cheaper and it helps with the time issue.
                    Last edited by Pinkie86; 08-10-2008, 07:00 PM.
                    FILED!: August 11, 2008 * Pre-Filing Fico Score - 643 * 341: October 8, 2008 * Last Day for Objections: December 7, 2008
                    "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." -George Santayana

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by jessegirl View Post
                      Now that I am not paying the cc anymore i have extra money to spend so we go out to dinner and when i say out to diner i don't mean alot of money. for a family of 4 maybe 40.00. Will the trustee be pissed when they see that? Or should i just pay cash for the diner instead of using my debit/visa card? We aren't filing until sometime in sept or possibly oct.
                      The trustee might want to know how you feed a family of 4 for only $40

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Pinkie86 View Post
                        I've found the same thing, actually. My and my fiance's schedules are so different; I'm on a 7-5 schedule and he works 2nd or 3rd doing general contracting. It's actually cheaper and it helps with the time issue.
                        Same here. I never ate fast food before...and then I discovered In-and-Out burgers. Imagine a meal for $3.54!

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                          #13
                          Trust me when I say that no trustee is going to worry over $40. Enjoy yourselves, but I hope you also will put some $ aside every month to create an emergency fund. You will need that more going forward because life has a way of doing bad things to us when we least expect it and can least afford it.
                          I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advice nor a statement of the law - only a lawyer can provide those.

                          06/01/06 - Filed Ch 13
                          06/28/06 - 341 Meeting
                          07/18/06 - Confirmation Hearing - not confirmed, 3 objections
                          10/05/06 - Hearing to resolve 2 trustee objections
                          01/24/07 - Judge dismisses mortgage company objection
                          09/27/07 - Confirmed at last!
                          06/10/11 - Trustee confirms all payments made
                          08/10/11 - DISCHARGED !

                          10/02/11 - CASE CLOSED
                          Countdown: 60 months paid, 0 months to go

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