Hello all!
In the past few years I have been through absolute hell physically, emotionally and financially. It all started in March of 2001 when I suffered a back injury while installing a new fence around my house. The injury prevented me from being able to work and eventually led to me losing my job as an electrician in April.
Soon after losing my job, the mortgage, car, credit card and insurance payments began to mount and the stress of the entire situation was more than my wife could handle. She decided to take the easy way out (for her) and return to her homeland of the Canary Islands leaving me to deal with the entire mess myself.
Shortly after she left I began drinking heavily and completely shutdown emotionally. Needless to say, my house went into foreclosure, our brand new 2001 Expedition was repossessed and all my credit accounts went into collections. When my house was eventually sold at auction in November of 2002, I thought it was the end of the world. I have never been so depressed in my entire life.
By now I'm sure many of you are asking: "Why didn't you ask your family for help or at least file bankruptcy to stop the foreclosure?" My only answer to those questions is: I HONESTLY DON'T KNOW. I believe the alcohol had a lot to do with it. Reguardless, I'm past it now.
I have since sworn off drinking and been lucky enough to partner-up with a longtime friend in a low labor, cash-only vending business that allows me to work with my bad back. Things are getting better everyday, but I know that I'm going to have to face the court judgements and bad debts that I walked away from before I can really begin rebuilding my life. I'm hoping that a few of you can give me some sort of guidance before I consult with an attorney on Monday.
Here are the debts that I have been able to dig-up so far...
1st mortgage - $87,816.39
2nd mortgage - $34,648.46 - The house eventually sold for $118,000~
Car loan - $21,000~ - I don't know what it sold for after repo.
Credit cards - $21,643 according to Experian (although a few have gone into charge-off status)
All of these debts have been outstanding since at least November of 2002. According to the court records I have received, the 1st mortgage for the house was paid in full by the second mortgage lender and I have a certificate of satisfaction to prove it. Do any of you folks have any tips or suggestions to offer me in my quest to rebuild my finances? Any constructive advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Chris
In the past few years I have been through absolute hell physically, emotionally and financially. It all started in March of 2001 when I suffered a back injury while installing a new fence around my house. The injury prevented me from being able to work and eventually led to me losing my job as an electrician in April.
Soon after losing my job, the mortgage, car, credit card and insurance payments began to mount and the stress of the entire situation was more than my wife could handle. She decided to take the easy way out (for her) and return to her homeland of the Canary Islands leaving me to deal with the entire mess myself.
Shortly after she left I began drinking heavily and completely shutdown emotionally. Needless to say, my house went into foreclosure, our brand new 2001 Expedition was repossessed and all my credit accounts went into collections. When my house was eventually sold at auction in November of 2002, I thought it was the end of the world. I have never been so depressed in my entire life.
By now I'm sure many of you are asking: "Why didn't you ask your family for help or at least file bankruptcy to stop the foreclosure?" My only answer to those questions is: I HONESTLY DON'T KNOW. I believe the alcohol had a lot to do with it. Reguardless, I'm past it now.
I have since sworn off drinking and been lucky enough to partner-up with a longtime friend in a low labor, cash-only vending business that allows me to work with my bad back. Things are getting better everyday, but I know that I'm going to have to face the court judgements and bad debts that I walked away from before I can really begin rebuilding my life. I'm hoping that a few of you can give me some sort of guidance before I consult with an attorney on Monday.
Here are the debts that I have been able to dig-up so far...
1st mortgage - $87,816.39
2nd mortgage - $34,648.46 - The house eventually sold for $118,000~
Car loan - $21,000~ - I don't know what it sold for after repo.
Credit cards - $21,643 according to Experian (although a few have gone into charge-off status)
All of these debts have been outstanding since at least November of 2002. According to the court records I have received, the 1st mortgage for the house was paid in full by the second mortgage lender and I have a certificate of satisfaction to prove it. Do any of you folks have any tips or suggestions to offer me in my quest to rebuild my finances? Any constructive advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Chris
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