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    I can remember a time i sat here looking at all my credit card accounts online...

    I can remember a time i sat here looking at all my credit card accounts online...

    and thinking wow i really have a lot of credit to use. i made sure each bill was paid on time. i loved doing it. i looked at the APR, never really adding up how much just that added to each month across all of the accounts. just wondered when i would get another offer.

    i never thought about the fact that i was using them as an income extension. i just always knew i could pay the amount owed that came each month. i didnt calculate how long it would take to pay it off.

    in fact, i still dont know ho wlong it would have taken, or how much interest was being charged each month. i can guess. for the first time in this whole mes i am thinking about it.

    it seems like it would have been $12,000 a year using an avg APR and simple interest. APR isnt calculated at simple interest let me assure you. $12,000. holy smokes. that would almost buy me a whole new car. wow, no wonder the amount climbed so fast over the years.

    i bet i paid them off long before, except for the interest.

    it never dawned on me that i shouldnt be using 10's of thousands of dollars in credit cards. i never questioned what on earth i needed limits like that. they gave it to me and it made sense at the time. not logical sense. but 'common' sense so to speak lol. everyone was doing it.

    now i sit here looking at my credit limits less then $500 total and i think "gosh i dont want to charge anything on that so i cant get into trouble again".

    its $500. lol. i could never get into trouble with that credit limit. but why do i question it now. a little to late. i should have had that thought a very long time ago. i hope you are having these thoughts too.

    my current thinking is that if i cant pay it off in 3 months max then i cant afford it. $500 / 3 months = $168 a month. gosh that seems like a lot of money. i hope the APR doesnt eat me up in that time. i better just not use it since i have some cash instead.
    Im not an attorney or a trustee. You cant trust me either though!

    [x] - Done with 341? Join the 60 Day Club! ___________[x] - Im Discharged! Whoo Hooo!
    [x] - Poll: Should I File Pro-Se ____________________[x] - New BK Law: Median Income, Means Testing and Presumptive Abuse
    [x] - Zombie Debt Collectors Dig Up Your Old Mistakes _-[x] - Bankruptcy Law Resource
    [x] - Need A Fast Answer? Available 24/7!--__________[x] - Dont Be A Hero On Your Budget - You Wont Get An Award!

    #2
    BK, we have all had our days of "Oh my Gosh - What have I done to myself??"

    I sit for months trying to balance this, rob Peter to pay Paul, and ward off hospital bills and funeral bills, etc. Drove me crazy trying to figure out how I was going to get it all straightened out.....

    Three years later, I realized - "It wasn't going to to get straightened out - it was only getting worse". Especially when I got sick and couldn't work the second job........

    Bk was a last resort for me..........I had tried everything but credit counseling and could not see where I would benefit from that. I had always been able to pay my bills for 40 years - no problems.... because I stayed within my income.

    But 4 years of taking care of an invalid at home - thru my finances into an uproar I'd never experienced before... Tried digging out and that didn't work...

    So 3 years later I wised up and filed bankruptcy.....

    It was and has been an extremely "hard" bankruptcy as most of you know.... Do I regret doing it - sometimes - but 99% of the time I will tell you I should have done it sooner than I did.

    I've very cautious now, after all I have been thru...... I still use cc, but pay them off each month (building that credit back up)....

    We all have our story about our experiences and each one is different in its own way.....

    Yes there is life after bankruptcy!!
    Minny

    "It's amazing the paths that our feet sometimes follow in life".

    My suggestions are from "personal experience" and research only. Do not consider this as legal advice. Each bankruptcy case is different.

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      #3
      Wow....

      I never got to experience as the computer had been traded for something smokable...lol...now the only thing I get to pull up is my credit report with my 16 problem areas...I wonder if it's changed now that I have my discharge? Would it be sent out as a report to them yet?
      Filed Oct 2005discharged February 2007,Shapeless in the fire's glow, tell me if you think you know,
      Who it was we were below, where we've been and where we go

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        #4
        the court sent or they picked up the fact i got a discharge within 3 days of the discharge itself.
        Im not an attorney or a trustee. You cant trust me either though!

        [x] - Done with 341? Join the 60 Day Club! ___________[x] - Im Discharged! Whoo Hooo!
        [x] - Poll: Should I File Pro-Se ____________________[x] - New BK Law: Median Income, Means Testing and Presumptive Abuse
        [x] - Zombie Debt Collectors Dig Up Your Old Mistakes _-[x] - Bankruptcy Law Resource
        [x] - Need A Fast Answer? Available 24/7!--__________[x] - Dont Be A Hero On Your Budget - You Wont Get An Award!

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          #5
          Originally posted by bkfiler
          the court sent or they picked up the fact i got a discharge within 3 days of the discharge itself.
          Cool!
          Filed Oct 2005discharged February 2007,Shapeless in the fire's glow, tell me if you think you know,
          Who it was we were below, where we've been and where we go

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            #6
            Oh, if only my wife and I had filed BK about 8 years ago when we met. We both struggled to pay our minimums and for what. I guess I thought it was cowardly or something to go the BK route. I was so very wrong. Had we both filed then we'd only have two years to go until the BK was wiped off our record. But no, instead we're just getting into BK now after those years of struggling like fools. :shaking head: Oh well, no looking back eh?

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              #7
              dont be so hard on yourself. you filed when it was time for you to file.

              it doesnt matter if it on your record anymore. do you really want credit again like a mad dog? no. so who cares!

              after discharge you can get plenty of cards.

              and in 2 years of good payment history you can get a good house loan.

              and in 3 years your scores can be high again. 4-5 years max.

              honestly, who needs credit anymore. the only problem bk poses is that you cant wipe out medical bills again for another 8 years for a chapt 7 to chapt 7 filing. so get excellent insurance and considering it smart protection.
              Last edited by bkfiler; 01-31-2006, 08:55 PM.
              Im not an attorney or a trustee. You cant trust me either though!

              [x] - Done with 341? Join the 60 Day Club! ___________[x] - Im Discharged! Whoo Hooo!
              [x] - Poll: Should I File Pro-Se ____________________[x] - New BK Law: Median Income, Means Testing and Presumptive Abuse
              [x] - Zombie Debt Collectors Dig Up Your Old Mistakes _-[x] - Bankruptcy Law Resource
              [x] - Need A Fast Answer? Available 24/7!--__________[x] - Dont Be A Hero On Your Budget - You Wont Get An Award!

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                #8
                Points well taken. We can only go forward.

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by bkfiler

                  my current thinking is that if i cant pay it off in 3 months max then i cant afford it. $500 / 3 months = $168 a month. gosh that seems like a lot of money. i hope the APR doesnt eat me up in that time. i better just not use it since i have some cash instead.
                  Ya know... my current thinking is.. if I can pay something off in 3 months... why not wait to buy whatever it is for 3 months and get it for the cash price.

                  Better yet... wait the 3 months, saving the full amount needed, buy the item with the credit card... and on the same day I buy the item, also write a check to the CC company for the full amount. No interest buying!

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                    #10
                    that was a max time frame. sometimes you need to buy things but cant afford it right at the time.

                    otherwise i agree, cash is king.
                    Im not an attorney or a trustee. You cant trust me either though!

                    [x] - Done with 341? Join the 60 Day Club! ___________[x] - Im Discharged! Whoo Hooo!
                    [x] - Poll: Should I File Pro-Se ____________________[x] - New BK Law: Median Income, Means Testing and Presumptive Abuse
                    [x] - Zombie Debt Collectors Dig Up Your Old Mistakes _-[x] - Bankruptcy Law Resource
                    [x] - Need A Fast Answer? Available 24/7!--__________[x] - Dont Be A Hero On Your Budget - You Wont Get An Award!

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by bkfiler
                      that was a max time frame. sometimes you need to buy things but cant afford it right at the time.

                      otherwise i agree, cash is king.

                      You know... in some ways I agree with you... until I look back at my $100,000 in credit card debt and think of all the times I said, "oh, I'll pay this off when I get my tax return in a few months" or "I have that bonus coming, I'll pay it off then"

                      Maybe YOU can manage this... but I will never have a balance on a credit card again any larger than $1. I will get a credit card to use for purchases as I don't like using debit cards in case someone steals the number... but I will pay it off or all but a dollar (so that it'll show on the credit report as "paid as agreed") every single month. I will have EVERYTHING budgeted and if it's not in the budget, it doesn't happen, period.

                      The only debt I ever intend to have again is for vehicles or houses... and those I won't do without decent down payments and monthly payments that are LOWER than I can afford!

                      Have I mentioned yet that I HATE the fact that I'm having to file bk?
                      Filed Ch. 7 Pro-Se: 10/12/06
                      341: 11/6/06 (went AMAZINGLY well!)
                      Discharge: 1/12/07
                      Closed:1/19/07

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                        #12
                        I don't think any of us are proud of it. We may feel great when it's over but it surely sucks to have ever ended up in the situation in the first place.

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