SOUNDS LIKE A GAME PLAN TO ME..........
Yes, he needs to show responsibility, get his own "habits" under control, especially if he is planning on spending the rest of his life around you and yours......
Time will tell if he's real serious about making a change...... it will have to be his choice.. you sure can't do it for him.....
Its time to separate the "man" from the "wild child"!!!!
AND separate "pads" is an execellent idea..... your space and his space.....
Time will tell on how willingly he is to give up his "c" to make a home at "our place".........
Keep your finances separate, don't bail him out when he gets caught, don't loan him money to pay the bills and make sure everything is out of your name... on the beach place.
I hope he does come around and see's the path he is on is self-destructive!! I hope his love for you is a lot stronger then his love for "C"........
Yes, he needs to show responsibility, get his own "habits" under control, especially if he is planning on spending the rest of his life around you and yours......
Time will tell if he's real serious about making a change...... it will have to be his choice.. you sure can't do it for him.....
Its time to separate the "man" from the "wild child"!!!!
AND separate "pads" is an execellent idea..... your space and his space.....
Time will tell on how willingly he is to give up his "c" to make a home at "our place".........
Keep your finances separate, don't bail him out when he gets caught, don't loan him money to pay the bills and make sure everything is out of your name... on the beach place.
I hope he does come around and see's the path he is on is self-destructive!! I hope his love for you is a lot stronger then his love for "C"........
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