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    Stupid wedding coordinator... wedding updates!

    For those of you who have been IMing me, here are the updates on the wedding plans:

    First of all, working with David's Bridal has been nothing less than a nightmare. They ordered the wrong dresses initially, wouldn't replace them, and ordered the wrong sizes on one of my bridesmaids (who is very sensitive to her weight... it was ordered too small of course.) Thank GOD we ordered them really early though. We are waiting for the last one to get back in, and then we are done dealing with those people. Stay away from David's Bridal... that's about the best advice that I can give to anyone about this...

    Flowers are turning out to be more expensive than I had planned. I told our florist $500 MAX... she comes back with a quote for damn near $600, and that doens't even include ANY arrangements for the tables or anything... not good.. and we are using cheap flowers. Lisianthus and carnations.....

    Invitations are all stuffed and ready to go. We are having my bridal shower, and an invitation addressing party on June 24th. I will be glad to have those out and about and done with.

    I went for my first wedding gown fitting last week Thursday. That was really fun. I feel as if I am jammed into a corset when I have my dress on, but it's worth it completely and totally and I am in love with my dress.

    My aunt is supposed to do our hair and makeup, but lately she has been really flaky, and it's starting to freak me out a little bit. I am beginning to wonder if she is going to show up at all.... I may need to hire someone else to do the job!

    Our honeymoon is booked. We are staying at the Vacation Village at Weston near Ft Lauderdale Florida.

    So that's an update for ya!

    Only 80 some odd days now!

    Oh yes, and finally, the dreaded wedding coordinator.
    We are getting married at the local art museum, and having our reception too. The woman won't get back with me, doesn't remember our names, and can't even spell mine properly, and is, in general, a complete BEEYATCH to work with... I'd like to fire her, but her manager has begged me to give her another chance... I absolutely hate her, and am afraid she is going to ruin my day....
    BUSY running my own credit repair services! Sorry I don't stop in so often any more!

    #2
    Thanks for the update,

    NOW YOU KNOW WHY PEOPLE ELOPE..............

    Don't worry too much, it'll all come together in the end......

    It won't be long before you will be an "ole married lady" that gripes and fusses about stuff................... honeymoons don't last forever.....

    Minny
    Minny

    "It's amazing the paths that our feet sometimes follow in life".

    My suggestions are from "personal experience" and research only. Do not consider this as legal advice. Each bankruptcy case is different.

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      #3
      Congrats...again...

      ...expect the unexpected for sure....when is the wedding? Geez...it's hurricane season?!

      If it was perfect, it'd be too easy....but best wishes all the same...I remember my wedding...should have eloped; Minny was right!
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        #4
        Congratulations on your coming nuptials, TRR!

        As a perfectionist bride who was her own wedding coordinator, please keep in mind that (1) it will be the goofy things that happen around the ceremony and reception that will provide many smiles and inside family jokes in the coming years (our example, our florist's helpers (both male) used duct tape to secure our wedding aisle 'carpet' to the floor all the way from the back of the church to the altar before the ceremony even started. Picture big strips of silver duct tape going clear across the white fabric carpet from side to side - they told me later they didn't want it to accidentally be moved out of place - it sure didn't move...lol! It's in all of our coming down the aisle wedding photos and to this day (our 27th wedding anniversary is this Friday), we STILL laugh about it!) Also keep in mind that (2) no matter what happens good or bad that day, you'll be married at the end of it and that's what really matters! Good luck and best wishes to you both!
        I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advice nor a statement of the law - only a lawyer can provide those.

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          #5
          I can't even imagine planning a wedding and going through BK!!!!

          Good luck to you!
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            #6
            Originally posted by anonymuse
            I can't even imagine planning a wedding and going through BK!!!!

            Good luck to you!

            ROFL.
            I have been out of BK for a year and a half now! Thank GOODNESS!
            BUSY running my own credit repair services! Sorry I don't stop in so often any more!

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              #7
              Congrats... My brother's wedding was may 28th, and it is such a relief that it it over. David's bridal was a JOKE!!!!! They dyed the shoes wrong, and when I went to pick them up a 2nd time (for me and the others) they were the wrong AGAIN!!!!! I hate them! They were supposed to be pearl pink...with is very very light pink, first they didn't dye the whole shoe??..HELLO???? then they re-dyed it and it was coral...VERY DARK orange. I was complaining to the manager and she said well they say pearl pink. I dragged her to alterations where my dress was, and said now tell me....are these pearl pink...she said oh and grabbed all the shoes in the correct sizes and dyed them , finally they got them right. I couldn't believe the manager would argue with a customer.
              Anyways good luck and stay on your toes with them. The wedding was nice until my son's finger got caught in the door and we spent the rest of the night (until 4am)in the ER.....ugh !!!

              pink

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                #8
                Just remember Tin, you fret the details now, but once the event starts, it has a life of it's own. What happens, happens.

                So, like others have said, sit back and enjoy your day. Let other people take care of the details that pop up. Focus on your Hubby, gazing into each others eyes as you exchange vows, and dancing that first dance together, and shoving cake in each other's faces, and all the other fun parts of the wedding "party" the married couple is supposed to enjoy. Don't even bother learning about all the rest until you get back from the Honeymoon. And by then, WHO WILL CARE!!
                Filed Ch 7 - 09/06
                Discharged - 12/2006
                Officially Declared No Asset - 03/2007
                Closed - 04/2007

                I am not an attorney. My comments are based on personal experience and research. Always consult an attorney in your area to address concerns related to your particular situation.

                Another good thing about being poor is that when you are seventy your children will not have declared you legally insane in order to gain control of your estate. - Woody Allen...

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by pink_amulet
                  Congrats... My brother's wedding was may 28th, and it is such a relief that it it over. David's bridal was a JOKE!!!!! They dyed the shoes wrong, and when I went to pick them up a 2nd time (for me and the others) they were the wrong AGAIN!!!!! I hate them! They were supposed to be pearl pink...with is very very light pink, first they didn't dye the whole shoe??..HELLO???? then they re-dyed it and it was coral...VERY DARK orange. I was complaining to the manager and she said well they say pearl pink. I dragged her to alterations where my dress was, and said now tell me....are these pearl pink...she said oh and grabbed all the shoes in the correct sizes and dyed them , finally they got them right. I couldn't believe the manager would argue with a customer.
                  Anyways good luck and stay on your toes with them. The wedding was nice until my son's finger got caught in the door and we spent the rest of the night (until 4am)in the ER.....ugh !!!

                  pink
                  RUN RUN RUN as far away as you can from David's Bridal. They are the worst place in the world, and they will treat you as if you are mentally retarded if you bring up any complaints with them.

                  They seem to forget that this it he most important day of a woman's life....
                  BUSY running my own credit repair services! Sorry I don't stop in so often any more!

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by SinkingFast
                    Just remember Tin, you fret the details now, but once the event starts, it has a life of it's own. What happens, happens.

                    So, like others have said, sit back and enjoy your day. Let other people take care of the details that pop up. Focus on your Hubby, gazing into each others eyes as you exchange vows, and dancing that first dance together, and shoving cake in each other's faces, and all the other fun parts of the wedding "party" the married couple is supposed to enjoy. Don't even bother learning about all the rest until you get back from the Honeymoon. And by then, WHO WILL CARE!!

                    EVERYONE has been saying this to me!

                    I am a complete control freak, and have to have my hand into every little bitty detail... it's awful. I have designating, because I am just *sure* it won't get done....

                    I need to work on that.
                    BUSY running my own credit repair services! Sorry I don't stop in so often any more!

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                      #11
                      You'll have pleasant surprises that will pop up at the last minute. People will offer to serve punch and cake, or ferry gifts to a table or your car. Lots of your little last minute needs, people will just jump in and take up the slack. You'll be amazed!

                      You talking about dresses reminds me of a wedding that I was a bridesmaid in. A friend or Aunt of the Bride's mother was gonna make the BM dresses to keep the costs down for us. The Maid of Honor bought her dress and this woman "patterned" our dresses off of her's. The MoH's dress was a darker shade and the fabric purchased for the rest of us was a shade or 2 lighter. Supposed to designate the MoH's importance over the rest of us I guess.

                      It was just too much work for the poor woman sewing the dresses. The Friend/Aunt was overwhelmed and DID NOT get them done! Partly it was the fabrics chosen. Tough to work with. And the shear number of dresses the woman was making. There were 8 bridesmaids she had to make dresses for.

                      We all looked OK, BUT,............ When I went for my final fitting, 3 days before the wedding, the woman said my dress may not be "completely done" before the wedding. She got my skirt and hem done, but didn't get the bust adjustment finished or the zipper in. I remember I went down the aisle with my dress literally PINNED together. Down the side seams on both sides, to the waist. AND no zipper in the back. It was pinned together there too.

                      The wedding was right before Christmas so we wore a deep pink/rose color dress with short waisted, 3/4 sleeved, burgundy color, velvet jackets over the top. Thank goodness for that jacket or I mighta been rather exposed in several places on top. I could not move. If I stood anyway but perfectly straight up, I'd get stuck by pins or gaps would open and anyone could see into the dress thru the back where the zipper was supposed to be.

                      Everyone is right. The pics will look great. You'll look back at your wedding pics, knowing all the quirky stuff and you'll laugh your butts off for years to come. I'm laughing now just thinking about that wedding. It was beautiful for the happy couple, and no one knew about the dresses but the immediate bridal party.
                      Filed Ch 7 - 09/06
                      Discharged - 12/2006
                      Officially Declared No Asset - 03/2007
                      Closed - 04/2007

                      I am not an attorney. My comments are based on personal experience and research. Always consult an attorney in your area to address concerns related to your particular situation.

                      Another good thing about being poor is that when you are seventy your children will not have declared you legally insane in order to gain control of your estate. - Woody Allen...

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