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    #1

    3 days to go and I am FREAKING OUT.

    The DJ canceled on me this morning!!!!

    I got an email from my uncle saying "sorry, but work had to fly me to San Jose this week. We can't do your wedding."

    All this, after he promised me he was on vacation this week and weekend!

    (my aunt and uncle were providing the DJ service!)

    On top of that, my hairdresser backed out on Saturday, that was replaced, but it still made me mad.

    My one bridesmaid is tripping out. She seems to think that her only job is to show up on Saturday and be pretty. I want to strangle her.

    PLEASE pray that I don't kill anyone in the next 72 hours! I am absolutely miffed, pissed, hurt and freaking out!
    BUSY running my own credit repair services! Sorry I don't stop in so often any more!
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    Tin,

    I am SO sorry!!! Is there anyone else that might could do the music? Perhaps an older high school student that's a music buff or college music major? What are the arrangements for your hair? I know you will look beautiful! And for the bridesmaid--I don't know why some "adults" insist on acting like two-year-olds.

    Will pray that you don't kill anyone and that you have a blessed and beautiful day!

    Peace,
    jane
    Filed: 2/24/2006
    341 mtg: 4/4/2006:angel:
    Discharged: 9/25/08!!!!!:yahoo::yahoo::yahoo::yahoo::yahoo:

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      #3
      Try to stay calm....

      ....I know that's easier said than done...as a friend of mine says, one castrophe at a time...easiest ones first. Wishing you the best!
      Filed Oct 2005discharged February 2007,Shapeless in the fire's glow, tell me if you think you know,
      Who it was we were below, where we've been and where we go

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        #4
        May I ask a question? I'm not familiar with traditional wedding etiquette. What exactly is the job of a bridesmaid?

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          #5
          PLEASE remember no matter what does or doesn't happen it's not about other people or stuff that did or didn't happen.

          I got married in front of a judge & news reporter. It doesn't matter I didn't get to wear my dress(that I bought 2 weeks before) it didn't matter that I cut my cake at McDonalds, it didn't matter that my husband was in BDU's. What mattered was that we were married.

          Yea, you want your day to be a princess but if everything falls apart it doesn't matter, what matters is your commitment to your spouse.
          Filed 09/05
          Discarged 1/2/06
          Closed 1/13/06

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            #6
            Well said, JeepMom!

            Tin, just remember to breath--this too shall pass.
            *** THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE--ONLY A LAWYER CAN PROVIDE THAT. ***

            My posts represent hours of research on and off the web, these forums, my experience, and my opinions.

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              #7
              Incase anyone cares, here are a couple of pictures:
              http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/TaylorsMommyJen/court.jpg

              http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/TaylorsMommyJen/mcd.jpg


              http://f3.yahoofs.com/users/41b95118z8a852d55/20e1/__sr_/3e77.jpg?ph4qd9EBjQFfF_Sd
              Filed 09/05
              Discarged 1/2/06
              Closed 1/13/06

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                #8
                Great pictures, JeepMom!! I will be celebrating my 18th wedding anniversary this weekend. Unfortunately, my hubby is still under the weather after several complications after his surgery, but we will be together! Will probably fix a nice dinner for him and watch a bunch of football!

                Tin, I can't wait to see your pictures. I know everything will be beautiful. What colors are you using, flowers, etc.? I LOVE weddings!!
                Filed: 2/24/2006
                341 mtg: 4/4/2006:angel:
                Discharged: 9/25/08!!!!!:yahoo::yahoo::yahoo::yahoo::yahoo:

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Hot-Tod-E View Post
                  May I ask a question? I'm not familiar with traditional wedding etiquette. What exactly is the job of a bridesmaid?
                  Everything the bride needs. I have been a bridesmaids quite a few times and I have taken a gazillion pictures while everyone gets ready and all the litte things that make up a wedding. We hold the dress up so the bride can pee. We offer safety pins so the dresses stay up or duct tape in unmentionable places A bridesmaid makes sure it goes easy for the bride and the bridesmaids get to put their hair up and wear a pretty dress and drink LOTS of champagne. *sighs****** I love being a bridesmaid.

                  Best of luck Tin. I will be thinking of you and hoping all goes well. Can't wait to see some pictures.
                  Filed: 08/09/06
                  341: 09/18/06
                  Discharged: 11/22/06
                  Closed 11/30/06

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Hot-Tod-E View Post
                    May I ask a question? I'm not familiar with traditional wedding etiquette. What exactly is the job of a bridesmaid?


                    Several things.
                    Putting programs together,
                    putting gift bags and thank you gifts together. being there when I freak out. Making sure that everything is in order for the big day (ie. little details...)
                    Basically a helper.



                    Everyone, I am trying to stay calm.
                    Thanks for the wishes, and I am holding my breath. When it's all said and done, I will be married to the man of my dreams, and that's all that matters, right?

                    jeepMom-Nice pics !
                    BUSY running my own credit repair services! Sorry I don't stop in so often any more!

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                      #11
                      I was gonna suggest the same thing as Jane but she beat me to it.

                      The Kids' old High School, Football Homecoming Dance. Something happened with the DJ the school had hired for the dance. The DJ called the school the day before that he couldn't do the job.

                      One of the kids, a Senior, stepped up and did a fantastic job. He played a great mix of music, threw in requests from the crowd. Had his own personal killer sound system. Even the Teachers commented what a GREAT job he did.

                      Maybe there's someone in your Circle or a friend of a friend who can do the same for you. Might give someone an opportunity to make both your day and theirs!

                      Keep in mind, your day isn't about the Freaky Bridesmaid who's lost her mind, or the DJ that doesn't show, or a different person doing your hair,.........

                      It's about you and your intended. Keep that as the focus, the center of your attention, and your day will be lovely.
                      Filed Ch 7 - 09/06
                      Discharged - 12/2006
                      Officially Declared No Asset - 03/2007
                      Closed - 04/2007

                      I am not an attorney. My comments are based on personal experience and research. Always consult an attorney in your area to address concerns related to your particular situation.

                      Another good thing about being poor is that when you are seventy your children will not have declared you legally insane in order to gain control of your estate. - Woody Allen...

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                        #12
                        Silly as it sounds, call local phraternity houses. Although it is "rush season" so who knows. BUT almost every house has a DJ that is always looking for cash.
                        Filed 09/05
                        Discarged 1/2/06
                        Closed 1/13/06

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                          #13
                          Jeep mom is right. Every frat house knows some dj looking for cash. Now, Tin, please....slow down.....take some breaths. This will pass. There may be some small catastrophies along the way that day. You will survive it, although from what you have written, your mil may not survive it!! Just enjoy your new husband and who cares about the rest. Everyone will get over it, and a few years from now, all will be forgotten.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by JeepMom View Post
                            Incase anyone cares, here are a couple of pictures:
                            http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/TaylorsMommyJen/court.jpg

                            http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/TaylorsMommyJen/mcd.jpg


                            http://f3.yahoofs.com/users/41b95118...4qd9EBjQFfF_Sd
                            When I saw the court.jpg filename, I thought it was going to be of your 341 meeting!
                            *** THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE--ONLY A LAWYER CAN PROVIDE THAT. ***

                            My posts represent hours of research on and off the web, these forums, my experience, and my opinions.

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                              #15
                              Thinking of you today Tin. Hope all goes well and you have a lovely wedding. Congratulations!
                              Filed: 08/09/06
                              341: 09/18/06
                              Discharged: 11/22/06
                              Closed 11/30/06

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