cindy02 01-28-2009, 11:58 AM I left my house Feb/08, at that time I was late 5 months. Thinking we didn't have much time we moved into our second home (put in about $12000 in upgrades as soon as we moved). In about 8 months we were upside-down about $100000. My husband and I were so upset that we ended up also moving in Nov/08 from our second house. We found a really nice rental home (better area) for $1300 less then our mortgage payment. For the first house it took 16 months to foreclosed and for the second home the property is still vacant. I regret not staying longer rent-free.
We could have saved about $25000 by staying in our first home rent free for 16 months. I just feel that we've made so many mistakes.
Has anyone moved out before the foreclosure is finished?
BassBoy 01-28-2009, 02:30 PM Many of us have. We did.
cindy02 01-28-2009, 02:46 PM Thanks BassBoy.. How long did stay in your home before you moved out?
Trixie007 01-28-2009, 02:51 PM We moved out in Oct 08 - the sale is set for March. But, we moved two states away, which seems like many people who've posted have done that for better employment.
BassBoy 01-28-2009, 04:07 PM Thanks BassBoy.. How long did stay in your home before you moved out?
We filed in Oct. 2005 and we started shopping for a place almost immediately. We have 2 boys.............the poster children for ridalin mind you......ROTFL.......just kidding........we didn't want to get cramped up in some apartment, so we acted quickly. We found a nice home to rent with a very nice homeowner/landlaord and we signed our lease ageement before our discharge (that was 02/06) and we moved in the first weekend in March. The unknown of where we would end up was a scary thought, and having a nice place to call home where our boys would space to play was worth more than anything. Our foreclosure sale didn't take place for another year after that.
atolar 01-28-2009, 04:17 PM we are still staying in our home. the court date for relief of stay was on the 27th of this month... we haven't heard anything other than that. ooo, our lawyer said we had 90 days after we get the letter from the sheriffs department.
cindy02 01-28-2009, 07:55 PM I'm in nevada and after the relief of stay was lifted it took another 6 months to receive the letter.
ssdsco 01-29-2009, 03:59 AM Yes. Last payment was June 2007 on our MD (Washington beltway) Mc Mansion. We got the initial default letter after 4-5 months of no payment and that's it. Could still be living in it 20 months later. It's $200k upside down. They're still trying to collect HOA fee's. I don't want to have new HOA debt after I file BK7 so I wish they'd foreclose.
Starting a few months ago the mortgage company calls every couple weeks asking if my situation changed and if I want to work out something to keep the house including forgiving the entire 2nd mortgage. When I ask why it's taking so long to foreclose they tell me it's out of their hands and offer to give me their attorney's office phone number.
cindy02 01-29-2009, 08:36 AM WOOOOOOO. 20 months... that's crazy.. did you go rent after the 5 months?
plantlvr 01-29-2009, 09:11 AM Still in my home going on 6 months with no payments. I'm in the halfway point for my Chapter 7 discharge and still haven't received a NOD. It's nice not to pay the mortgage but nervewracking too....Feel like the sword of damacleas is hanging over my head!
Martha13 01-29-2009, 09:25 AM We did also, for many of the same reasons BassBoy mentioned. We didn't fully understand how the entire process worked, have 3 kids and wanted to be settled somewhere stable for them (and our sanity) and not have that fear of the unknown in our hearts everyday. Our last mortgage payment was for April of '07, we moved in mid-July, had filed at the end of June. We just received the NOD in December, and I think the clock runs out around the end of March or mid-April...so I guess that puts it at around a year all together.
I have had some moments of mini-regret, mostly centered on hindsight, and adding up all that $$...but the peace of mind and stability is worth more than that overall. I still check on the old house almost daily, which is odd. We have kept everything up, partially out of respect for neighbors, and some strange sense of responsibility. We have definitely kept up with the HOA as many have explained the requirements of that. But I know how you feel, I hate to look back and think of all the mistakes and do the "shoulda coulda woulda" game. It's hard not to.
hnhlvr 01-29-2009, 09:45 AM We moved out only two weeks after our mortgage was late! I wanted to restart my life in a clean, nice rental, in a respectable neighborhood and we were able to do so by having our credit check done while our credit was over 700. Who knows where we would have ended up otherwise, especially since my DH's credit was under 500 after 3 months.
Oh, and the sale of our house has been postponed a few times already, so we constantly would be on the edge of our seats wondering when we'd have to move out.
Look at it this way, you wouldn't have "saved" $25,000, you would have taken advantage of the banks by staying. If you cannot pay your mortgage, *as long as you have the money to pay for a rental instead* staying in the pre-foreclosed home is the equivalant of squatting!
cindy02 01-29-2009, 09:45 AM Martha, I have two kids and at that time I was very concerned if were going to be able to find a nice rental home. Just like you , I have my moments but lately for some reason I think about it more.
cindy02 01-29-2009, 09:50 AM hnhlvr , your totally right. My husband tells me every day that we need to move on and forget the money that we've lost. Once the BK is completed I want to rebuild my credit so we can buy another house.
question 02-16-2009, 06:35 AM I have a question, so if you stay in your home during the foreclosure process and the bankruptcy process and you are obviously not paying your mortgage what happens with the money? Can you really just save the money while filing BK? I have decided to file Bk but I want to make sure I have a plan in order first so I don't have any regrets... and also to make sure I do everything right... I would like to stay rent free for a couple of months so I have extra money to be able to paint and decorate our new house that we would be staying in... Is that possible?
cindy02 02-16-2009, 06:54 PM Yeah, I would recomend you to stay in your home rent free while you can and save your money. Just make sure you dont put your money on your bank account while you file for bankcruptcy because they might ask you for bank statements. I had to provide bank statements for the last 6 months.
question 02-17-2009, 04:39 AM Will I have to show where the money has been going? Will it still be able to be part of the means test? In order for me to qualify for the means test I would need my mortgage payment or rent payment when I move or I will be over the amount
truckerswife 02-17-2009, 11:21 AM We are in 13. Our last mortgage payment was around 11/07. In August a relief of stay was requested. In September it was granted. We moved in October. I check the court records and sheriff's auction list almost daily. Foreclosure/sale process hasn't restarted again, almost 2 years later. I wish they would hurry so that I could quit paying the insurance on it. We moved after we got the notice saying the stay had been lifted because I didn't want to dread going to the mail box everyday or worry every time there was a knock on my door. We also had our mail forwarded to a PO box instead of our new apartment. I didn't want all of that ugliness following us.
BK2008 02-17-2009, 08:06 PM We are in 13. Our last mortgage payment was around 11/07. In August a relief of stay was requested. In September it was granted. We moved in October. I check the court records and sheriff's auction list almost daily. Foreclosure/sale process hasn't restarted again, almost 2 years later. I wish they would hurry so that I could quit paying the insurance on it. We moved after we got the notice saying the stay had been lifted because I didn't want to dread going to the mail box everyday or worry every time there was a knock on my door. We also had our mail forwarded to a PO box instead of our new apartment. I didn't want all of that ugliness following us.
I did the same thing...moved, opened a PO Box, refuse certified mailings, etc.
I'll be darned if all of these people are going to hound me again. I think my HOA is after me for the past due balance, too.
I cancelled the insurance right after the auction date (12/02/08) and received a refund for the unused portion. Apparently, that thing still hasn't gone to auction yet, and the lender forced insurance on the property by using what was left in my escrow account. So I paid for it, one way or the other.
debtmonster 02-22-2009, 04:36 AM I see that some people have left early. What is the benefits of leaving early as opposed to staying there rent-free until you can save up all of that money once the sheriff sale has sold you house? I don't get it. I can see if you got some wonderful job far away, but why are people not staying in their houses as long as possible? How would it benefit me to move out early and start being broke with the expenses of renting some place instead of staying in my house for 12 to 24 months rent-free?
ssdsco 02-22-2009, 07:18 AM I see that some people have left early. What is the benefits of leaving early as opposed to staying there rent-free until you can save up all of that money once the sheriff sale has sold you house? I don't get it. I can see if you got some wonderful job far away, but why are people not staying in their houses as long as possible? How would it benefit me to move out early and start being broke with the expenses of renting some place instead of staying in my house for 12 to 24 months rent-free?
The security of knowing where you're going to live after you get the boot.
I just got my notice that foreclosure will take place after 45 days on my MD home. I could have lived there for almost 2 years payment free. I'm glad this is happening now before I file BK so I don't have any new debt(HOA fees) after I file BK that I would be responsible for.
debtmonster 02-22-2009, 07:27 AM The security of knowing where you're going to live after you get the boot.
I just got my notice that foreclosure will take place after 45 days on my MD home. I could have lived there for almost 2 years payment free. I'm glad this is happening now before I file BK so I don't have any new debt(HOA fees) after I file BK that I would be responsible for.
I'm talking about those people that are moving out in less than 90 days. Everyone should be doing what you're doing and riding it out for at least a year or two.
A friend of mine is the head of the home owner's association in his neighborhood. He said they have 170 homes that he is overseeing. 13 of them are foreclosed and vacant.
I am wondering if all of my neighbors will be royally pissed off when I foreclose. I have no intentions in telling any of them that I am foreclosing. I don't want to the dirty looks from them. The neighbors I am talking about are the ones across the street from me who are snowbirds. They are only here about 4 or 5 months. I will probably be moving out when they are not here anyway, so nobody will really even know what's going on until they come back and they see my house is vacant.
cindy02 02-22-2009, 09:44 AM debtmonster,
I moved out 2 months after I was late with my payments because I freaked out about not finding a nice rental home. When you have bad credit is hard to find something decent. I do regret not staying longer, it's probably going to take at least another 6 months for my second property to foreclosed. I know friends that their foreclosure process took 6 months so you never know if going to have 6 or up 24 months.
debtmonster 02-22-2009, 11:45 AM debtmonster,
I moved out 2 months after I was late with my payments because I freaked out about not finding a nice rental home. When you have bad credit is hard to find something decent. I do regret not staying longer, it's probably going to take at least another 6 months for my second property to foreclosed. I know friends that their foreclosure process took 6 months so you never know if going to have 6 or up 24 months.
My credit score is 489 now. What difference will it make months from now? It may even go up after the bankruptcy had wiped the slate clean and then the credit reports start reflecting it.
Many private people may not even check credit.
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