Our 341 is tomorrow. My mother-in-law had a stroke today and is not expected to live

[AngelinaCatHub]

Oh ACH.... It is obvious you are the self annoited queen bee on this site.... Bob Wang has now been labeled a "troll" because Bob spoke up and posted an opinion that was not approved by the "cool kids" of the forum.... From now on Bob will drink the kool-ade and be one with the Collective.......

One other thing....ACH, why are you still here and have not moved on with your post-BK life ?

One last flame, Wang, then no more. Questions answer: None of your business. Real answer, I owe it to those who helped me in my troubles. I am now independent, no bills what-so-ever, money in the bank, used my "new start wisely" and paid off my Mother's funeral. Thank you for asking though. 'Hub

[backtoschool]

BobWang, Some of us stick around to give back and "pay it forward" after we are done with our bk. If no one did this, then this board would not be the valuable resource it is. A forum cannot subsist on questions alone, someone has to stick around to give the answers.

[BobWang]

Oh ACH.... It is obvious you are the self annoited queen bee on this site.... Bob Wang has now been labeled a "troll" because Bob spoke up and posted an opinion that was not approved by the "cool kids" of the forum.... From now on Bob will drink the kool-ade and be one with the Collective.......

One other thing....ACH, why are you still here and have not moved on with your post-BK life ?

[AngelinaCatHub]

This is the internet and I could give a rats @$$ of what others think of my internet persona...... to Angelina.... Get of your high horse..... To the others and judging by their responses, I am quite sure they would be chomping at the bit to get their grubby little hands on their relative's estate if they were in the same situation....

This is the internet and I could give a rats @$$ of what others think of my internet persona.I hope your rodent gets better. Try a bit of preparation H. Couldn't hurt...... to Angelina.... Get of your high horse.....Hell man, I was bankrupt too. I told you I went through the death bit also. You get off your stallion, as it is really a gelding. To the others and judging by their responses, I am quite sure they would be chomping at the bit to get their grubby little hands on their relative's estate if they were in the same situation....Then, you give yourself away by those words. You are a Troll and I shall make a complaint regarding your "advice" as you are not here for good, but for evil. If you were here for help you would get it. It is obvious you are here for harm. Best you not Judge as you will be Judged.

Grubby hands on assets that are not earned is ill gotten gain if desired by lust for the asset alone. A gift from a loving relative who respected and loved you, should be cherished and used wisely in their memory. This person has shown his true character and hence refereed to as a Troll. My mild upbringing prohibits me from using adjectives more beholding to my feelings, but less respectful to this place of help, so I shall refrain from posting further on this thread that has gone to no real help, but to harm and address the Mods to close it please.

[ccsjoe]

Some typical flaming going on here. I'm gonna get some popcorn

LOL...care to share I'll get drinks

[justdidit]

Some typical flaming going on here. I'm gonna get some popcorn

[ccsjoe]

This is the internet and I could give a rats @$$ of what others think of my internet persona...... to Angelina.... Get of your high horse..... To the others and judging by their responses, I am quite sure they would be chomping at the bit to get their grubby little hands on their relative's estate if they were in the same situation....

And I am sure Mr. Wang you pass judgement with the same principles that you apply to your own self, otherwise how can such a torrent of truth and experience be spewed unto this forum from your "grubby little hands"...potentially to match an equal mind and persona.

What really is most amusing is how you choose to attack those who actually contribute constructively to this forum and to the people seeking help. Have a good day and good riddance.

LSU-My apologies, I know, don't feed the troll, got it..putting it on ignore.

[BobWang]

This is the internet and I could give a rats @$$ of what others think of my internet persona...... to Angelina.... Get of your high horse..... To the others and judging by their responses, I am quite sure they would be chomping at the bit to get their grubby little hands on their relative's estate if they were in the same situation....

[AngelinaCatHub]

Stop feeding the troll.

Actually "Tig" you are right. I just could not contain myself. Call it catharsis for myself. If this jerk is a "Troll" or stit stirrer, he will be found out soon enough, and banned. To date since the site has recovered and still in repair mode, I have seen three bans from jerks attempting to filter spam and one possibly targeting some malware. I am not sure but I think the site was brought down by a hacker. I analyzed the body and the server was up. I ran a chat room and am familiar with attacks. This is a popular site for jerks to get attention. I know that one Mod or another reads every post and this guy will be duly noted I am sure. 'Hub

[AngelinaCatHub]

Still stand by my post..... The post by the OP appeared that she was more concerned about whether a trustee could claim a potential inheritance, than her MIL's devastating stroke and imminent passing. The rest of you should be ashamed of yourselves....

Mr. Wang: Apparently you have never lost a loved one close to you. If you have, (such as a Mother with no one else but you) the first thing you realize is "Mom's gone". Then sir, the coroner calls you, and states this fact and what to do with the 'body'. Then you in shock as the hospital she was taken to wants the gurney back. Then you call at night and wait for some stranger to address you at a funeral home, explain the charges and to where to take her.

Then the next morning if you sleep at all, you visit the mortuary, of course she died indigent so who will pay? Make payment arraignments, of burial or cremation. All this time thinking, who the hell do I contact to tell? Then you get a final OK to bury or burn her. The payment plan flies. Of course you cannot afford this payment, but you must do so. So you give the OK to do what is needed.

Day two, she is layed out in this wood cheap box with a liner instead of vault due to the price. Then you see her with a smile and makeup. Never looked so good, so you weep a bit but onward to home to make many calls. Then to her house before the neighbors find out, and the place is ransacked.

This Mr. Wang, is business in spite of Mom passing away. It actually happened to me and is a true story. Now, did I have time to grieve? Well hell yes I did and not only that I was mad as hell for having to do all that. Not at her, just angry as hell for no reason but what I HAD to do without warning. But it had to be handled.

These folks are in BANKRUPTCY, which means that they are already under stress, pressure and grief.

You sir, come about with your ever judgmental, puritanical, better than thou opinion, that they should be on their knees in front of a coffin praying for a person just about to pass, when they are doing the responsible thing of handling the affairs at hand. Shakespeare wrote: "To thine own self be true". That has more sense than your curt opinion at a time when you would do best to aid, than judge or post nothing at all.

As far as my own self, my opinion of you sir, is you are a number one @$$-anal orifice. 'Hub

[LSUTiger32]

Stop feeding the troll.

[dtaild]

Bob, just because you had a bad day doesn't mean you have to pass it off to others...Once again, legit question, pretty sure you're about the only one that thinks otherwise

[BobWang]

Still stand by my post..... The post by the OP appeared that she was more concerned about whether a trustee could claim a potential inheritance, than her MIL's devastating stroke and imminent passing. The rest of you should be ashamed of yourselves....

[tcreegan]

Hang in there Ruth, you are in our thoughts and prayers as well.

Tom in Colo

[backtoschool]

My kind thoughts and sympathy go out to the OP. The inheritance money is recoverable by the trustee however, if your husband receives it within 180 days of filing.