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    Thank You BK Forum, I filed yesterday

    First off I wanted to thank all of you who have taken the time to post your experiences and knowledge about your situations prior to, during, and after Bankruptcy. After several unsuccessful attempts to "catch up" mortgage payments I received a NOD, I felt as though I had a huge Scarlett letter on my forehead (only instead of it being the letter "A" it was an "L") Everytime I walked out of my house and saw a neighbor, it was like they knew my "secret" and that I would be the cause of their plummeting home value. I don't remember the last time I slept through the night worrying about how to catch up with all of my bills and by the time I did fall asleep, I was serenaded by the host of bill collectors with their serial calls, minutes before their allowed am time.

    I began surfing the internet to find mortgage help when I read bout Bankruptcy and Chapter 13. I was fortunate to find this site and the information has been priceless. I interviewed 4 different attorneys and selected one who only handles bankruptcy AND that had a very informative receptionist (why an informative receptionst? Because I know that is the person whom I will be speaking to when I call about my file most of the time) I did not sleep at all the day before my filing. I was worried about everything everbody else worries about, my circumstances and where it all fits in bankruptcy. To my suprise, it wasn't like a trip to the pricipal's office where you are there to give "your side" before it is determined whether or not you will be suspended. The filing process was a lot like purchasing a car. You provide all your expenses and then you're given a monthly payment which you will pay for 60 months.

    Please do not assume that I take this process lightly, because I don't. However, while I was there, two seperate phone calls came in where the callers' home was to be auctioned the next day. Perhaps it's a strategy amongst "bankruptcy savvy" individuals or maybe these two people were like me and terrified of this whole process. If you are facing foreclosure and need to file a Chapter 13 don't wait until the last day because you think you'll win the lottery.

    If you have watched your 90 days dwindle down to just a few days before the auction and you want to save your home, do yourself a favor do not wait until the day before the auction, read as much as you can on this site, talk to at least three attorneys, pick one, set up an appointment, then sit down a make a list of every single bill that you have, get a credit report if possible and write each creditor down. List the creditor, account number, amount owed and address. This will help you look at your debt in an organized manner which may help you remember debt that is not on your credit report and if you have questions for that debt you can tag it. By listing your debt, less time will be spent rummaging through paperwork with the attorney and you can spend more time asking questions, you can also prevent having to call back 20 times to add things that you may have forgotten.

    I hope this helps someone out there as much as some of these threads have helped me. Now onto the Meeting

    #2
    Good for you. This place is wonderful. The hardest part is the first step of acceptance. 'Hub
    If I knew it all, would I be here?? Hang in there = Retained attorney 8-06, Filed 12-28-07, Discharge 8-13-08, Finally CLOSED 11-3-09, 3-31-10 AP Dismissed, Informed by incompetent lawyer of CLOSED status, October 14, 2010.

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      #3
      Congrats on your sensible decision, queen, and thanks for posting your story!

      ep
      California Bankruptcy Central

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        #4
        Yes, thank you for sharing your story. Congratulations, and I hope you are feeling much better, and sleeping much better!
        "To go bravely forward is to invite a miracle."

        "Worry is the darkroom where negatives are formed."

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          #5
          You sounds like you have your head on straight.
          I too was physically/emotionally sick about filing. My attorney wished I had done it 18 months before I actually did.
          As others have said it is a lifestyle change and very doable.
          Good luck to you,
          CH 13 OLD LAW
          10/14/05
          Closed completed
          Final accounting 04/2009

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            #6
            Thank you, And yes the three people who have replied above me have been of much help. I have read a lot of your advice to newbies and wonder why people appear to take it personal when they receive honest replies. There is a reason why we are all here on this site and and I can bet a million dollars (of course I'd have to add you to my list of creditors) it's because the advice that got us here wasn't coming from someone who was honest.........."Sure you can refinance your house and consolidate your bills. Your credit cards are charging you 24% interest, your refi'd home loan will only be at 10% interest, you're saving 14%, now you can buy that car! Oh you make $50,000 a year? Well than it will only take you a year to pay off this $50,000 double tank dump truck that gets 2 miles per gallon, we're taking a loss at this price." Oh you can buy income property with an ARM that could go up to as much as 99% after 3 years, hold onto it for the three years, sell it for double then buy two more and do it again, Look out Donald Trump, besides the housing market is the best it has ever been." We have all this debt and we ask how we can get rid of it without losing anything, not paying for it, and not ruining our credit and we're told that it doesn't work that way and we get offended when someone tells us that it cannot be done. I appreciate the honesty and that has been given on this site and yes it sucks to hear the truth but it sucks even more to go into bankruptcy ignorant, whether the person takes the advice or not you are giving those of us who were scared to ask, the answers to many questions!


            I have been on disability longer than my bills allowed and the anxiety of not being in control of my finances have been very difficult. I also have a one year old who is actually the Energizer bunny in disguise. We have a long road ahead but I think getting to this point was the uphill battle now I'm ready to roll!

            I may not be the go to girl for answers but I will be hanging around for a little while (60 months and however many weeks it takes to be confirmed to be exact) BTW I actually slept 4 hours straight! YAY!!!

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              #7
              Yeah, you stick around. I like your style.

              ep
              California Bankruptcy Central

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                #8
                Congrats on taking finally filing and thanks for sharing your story....

                Good Luck!
                May 2008 Hired 1st Attorney/Stopped paying CCs
                May 21, 2009 Retained 2nd Attorney
                May 28th - Filed for Ch 7 (FINALLY!)
                9/11/09 - DISCHARGED!!!!

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