How "private" is BK?

[wenderful]

Actually, both my husband and myself have written many articles (relating to our business) which have been published and are available on the Internet. It could have been something that innocent, however, I think he was actually seeking out a picture of me as we had talked on the phone many times but never met in person (and he kind of hinted to that regard when I asked him about the Google search).

A very strange bird indeed.

A lot of our customers were a little on the "strange" side -- in our industry, our customers have really high IQ's (it has to do with what we were selling) and you know, sometimes those types can be a little eccentric (I'm NOT saying all people with high IQ's are eccentric, but some are).

[wenderful]

Thank you so much!

Yes, things are getting better every day -- all of my stress is bleeding off and live is moving on -- I would say "back to normal" -- but after the last two years, my life will never be what it was -- it's a new life and I'm taking each day - a day at a time

Wenderful, that is WONDERFUL!

My wife and her mother go through the same sort of thing, but not the same extent. They will get in a tiff and not talk for a week or two, then they are buddies again for another month until the next tiff. LOL

Sounds like things are good for you....getting rid of your bad debt, turning your financial life around and reconnecting with your mother! I wish you all the best!!!

[$$only4ever]

When I filed, the newspaper that publishes legal issues, was not printing the new BK cases, so my name never made into the newspapers, thank god. DH's employer knows because the payment comes out of his paycheck. In fact, his employer has been wonderful about it. I work in a bank. There was no way that it could come out of mine. Even though it is against the law to fire someone because they filed bankruptcy, trust me, I would have lost my job. Other than that, no one knows except for the mailman, lol. I love it when I receive mail from the trustee's office with the words Bankruptcy Court in big letters on the return address. But in all honesty, I am sure that he could care less.