joint bank account

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You are being honest with yourself, give your mom some credit and be honest with her too.

You need to do that for your relationship with her.

I have one daughter and I would hope she would/could come to me and tell me anything.

Good luck.

I should mention, I'm in my thirties. I just really need to keep this private from my family. Things aren't always the best with families.