Originally posted by happy_ira
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The whole hearing was surreal. We got there with ten minutes to spare and my attorney barely said anything to me. (I wasn't too interested in small talk either.) We then sat and waited while a few attornies shot the breeze.
The people before me reaffirmed an engagement ring they bought under their name for a Brother-in-law.

We were the last ones to get called before lunch and the judge was in the mood to be long winded. I litterally said nothing and stood there as he delivered a sermon on how reaffirmation should never be allowed and he's against it. My attorney chimed in saying "I don't even know why I should bother filling out these things" as she motioned toward the paperwork.
He went on and on and on about the economy and how more companies will be failing and how nobody is safe. His whole point was how he's somehow giving me a fantastic gift by NOT letting me reaffirm.
At one point in his sermon he asked hypothetically if I really wanted to reaffirm and I just shrugged my shoulders while my wife and attorney were shaking thier heads "no". I really wanted to argue my reasons for reaffirming but I decided it wasn't worth it.
So, we'll keep making payments and keep living here for as long as we'd like.
My bet is that some day in the future something will happen, like trying to sell the place, and we'll find that the lack of a mortgage will cause us some different kind of trouble instead. But, we'll just have to deal with that when it happens.
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