Originally posted by deepin
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Our mortgage reaffirmation was kind of a sloppy in the way it was handled along with our bankruptcy case in general. In the end I'm content with the way it turned out and I think I was too up-tight while I was going through it to see things clearly.
Like you, I was negative on my Schedule J but I still intended to reaffirm our mortgage.
Some of the arguments in support of our decision to reaffirm was the fact that we owe less than HALF on our mortgage than the tax appraised value of our house. Keep in mind that I live in an area that saw no measurable real estate boom and therefore isn't seeing much of a meltdown either. We could argue about the "real" value of our home as compared to what we owed, but there's no reason to believe its value would be LESS THAN HALF of the tax appraisal -- NOW or in the forseeable future.
Our mortgage payment is principal and interest only and it isn't much more than the average person's car payment. We could NEVER rent a home for the same (or less) than our monthly payment and we might not even be able to rent a family-sized apartment, even if you include property tax and insurance.
My schedule J included some expenses that I had eliminated just before filing and it also included $250 a month for a car that I intended to reaffirm but didn't.
Not only was keeping my home (and mortgage) in my family's best interest, but I was clearly able to demonstrate it was well within our ability to afford by making some small adjustments to Schedule J based on changes to our family living expenses.
The whole Presumption of Undue Hardship thing might have been avoided if my attorney had explained why on the reaffirmation agreement. Unfortunately, it was filed with the presumption of abuse and there was no attempt to explain why it wasn't.
There was almost no preperation by my attorney prior to the hearing. We went to the hearing as prepared as I was able to be without the attorney's help.
At the hearing, I understood why the hearing was called. From the paperwork my attorney submitted, the judge couldn't tell if the loan was a mortgage or a home equity loan.
I went to the hearing and got a lecture from the judge about how he never recommends reafirming anything. My butt-kissing attorney even rolled his eyes and gestured toward the paperwork saying "I don't even know why I BOTHER filling out these agreements." The judge went on to explain how the world was clearly ending and nobody was safe. He made it sound like my house could end up being worth $5 and I would thank him for avoiding the obligation to repay thousands of dollars on a worthless house. He was convinced he had granted me the greatest gift in the world and proclaimed the mortgage a hardship and the hearing ended without me saying a single word.
Here I am today and I have to say that I see the judge's point. Yes, it bothers me a bit that my mortgage is in limbo. Yes, it worrys me that there may be some hidden consequence of getting off easy. Yes, I worry that selling the house some day might be a huge pain in the rear.
For now, I make my payments ON TIME and it's easy with the new-found financial discipline I'm exercising.
I think the only down side is being in limbo as it applies to my mortgage.
There's a slim chance the bank might try to run me out of here some day so they can sell the place and collect their money. There's also the slim chance that I may flee the ol' homestead too.
Being in limbo means that there might be attorney's involved if I flee or attorney's involved if the bank trys to run me out of town. Either way, there's a lot of "what ifs" that few people have answers to and that's the big down-side.
I'm happy it turned out like it did but I understand how having a "normal" mortgage like everyone else could be better somehow.
For now, the freedom of knowing I can pack up the family and head West without obligation seems more comforting than having a mortgage reaffirmed.


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