Bring baby to 341

[poorgirl]

Hello everyone. I am new here. I have a VERY strange question. We have our 341 coming up in Nov. We have an infant that we are unable to find someone to watch (we found someone to watch our older one), and our lawyer says its ok for the baby to come as long as she is good. Anyone ever seen someone bring a baby? I am just nervous about it, but we really have no other choice.... Yikes.

nervous in the north.....

[InDebtInMD]

Some people had kids at our 341. But really, if you can't find the childcare you have no choice so I would not worry about it. Hopefully it will end up being during nap time. If not, bring a bottle or something for the little one to snack on.

Truthfully, an infant will likely be less trouble than a toddler.

Good luck!

[poorgirl]

Some people had kids at our 341. But really, if you can't find the childcare you have no choice so I would not worry about it. Hopefully it will end up being during nap time. If not, bring a bottle or something for the little one to snack on.

Truthfully, an infant will likely be less trouble than a toddler.

Good luck!

Thanks! Its reassuring to hear that. I appreciate you posting!!

[pink_amulet]

We are bringing our 5yr old. We have no one to watch him, however our older one will still be in school, so we don't have to worry about the older one. Someone told us, as long as our child stays quite their shouldn't be an issue.
Good luck

pink_amulet

[StaciMM]

We had to take our 4 year old, and there were others at our 341 w/ toddlers & babies.

[pink_amulet]

We had to take our 4 year old, and there were others at our 341 w/ toddlers & babies.

whew good to know!!

pink_amulet

[poorgirl]

Thank you everyone! I feel better already. I just wish Nov would hurry up and get here.... sigh

[Risi0457]

Hi Poorgirl
At the 341 meeting today it was a couple with a baby too. Don't worry is okay.

Good luck!!!!!

[poorgirl]

Hi Poorgirl
At the 341 meeting today it was a couple with a baby too. Don't worry is okay.

Good luck!!!!!

Good to hear. I was so worried it would tick the trustee off. I just want everything to go smoothly

[AAAArt]

Thank God! I was afraid that I was going to read horror stories about Trustee's selling small children. <G>
I used to worry about my children when they were young. Now that I'm well into the grandfather age (w.o grandkids), I realize how much time and energy I spent worrying over something in which I should rejoice.
Only suggestion that I would offer would be that rather than passing your nervousness and anxiety (normal) on to your child, that you allow your child's joy and happiness in living to be your strength on that day.
Best wishes.

[poorgirl]

Thank God! I was afraid that I was going to read horror stories about Trustee's selling small children. <G>
I used to worry about my children when they were young. Now that I'm well into the grandfather age (w.o grandkids), I realize how much time and energy I spent worrying over something in which I should rejoice.
Only suggestion that I would offer would be that rather than passing your nervousness and anxiety (normal) on to your child, that you allow your child's joy and happiness in living to be your strength on that day.
Best wishes.

Well said. And great advice. I will remember what you said come the day

[kaua4me]

Hello everyone. I am new here. I have a VERY strange question. We have our 341 coming up in Nov. We have an infant that we are unable to find someone to watch (we found someone to watch our older one), and our lawyer says its ok for the baby to come as long as she is good. Anyone ever seen someone bring a baby? I am just nervous about it, but we really have no other choice.... Yikes.

nervous in the north.....

Aloha,

I am new to this forum as well. I just had my 341 creditor meeting on Oct. 12th and I had to take my 17 month old with us. He was great when we got there but it took a while to see the trustee. So by the time it was our turn he was just pissed off already. But the trustee was very nice and sympathetic about the whole situation. It kind of made me not so nervous about the whole meeting thing. It was really quick! Just asked state your name and the last four digits of your ssn. asked if i owned any assets. did i give money to anybody, etc etc.

i think we were in there for about 7-9 minutes and that was it. i was really shocked of how fast and unnerverecking it really was. i thought it was going to be like real badgering but it was not brutal at all.

well i hoped this helped, i kind of think that me bringing my son made it so much easier. I told my husband he was my trump card to make it easier.