The Shame of Bankruptcy

[NowOrNever]

I feel guilt and shame. Although my husband - who never has been able to keep secrets - told our neighbors the other day. They told him they had also filed about 10 years ago. My FIL knows, but I would never tell my parents. Very funny about money. Although I did say this morning that to save my house (which trustee thinks we may have undervalued) I'll tell just about anybody and ask for help from anyone.