credit, money and independence

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bts -

congrats on your upcoming wedding - many blessings to you both. I think its okay to want to "own up" and pay your own debts but also know that its okay to accept help when the need arises. I dont know how you and your future hubby are planning on doing your finances once you're married - are you going to combine all expenses and monies in one account or keep them separate and split the bills equally? (meaning mortgage, utilities, etc - bills you will accrue together) Its something you should think about and discuss together now given you feel the way you currently do.

Thanks for the kind words Pandora. I am discussing finances ad nauseum with my fiance. I don't want money to ever be an issue between us.