When you have to purchase...

[needbkinfo]

Well when it comes to the house she lives in, she got that in the divorce, but I'm still on the loan papers, she has done nothing to get me off of the loan,

And nobody at all contacted me about her bankruptcy, i found out bye looking her up on Pacer, she had me listed on the creditors list, but wrong address, but other paper work in the bankruptcy had my right address, believe me she knows all about me, where i work, live, etc,

So oldbaddebts you say the "plan" is on pacer, i guess I'll have to look at it again, I'm not sure where to look,

I'm filled CH 7 and i had to notify her, because she on the house loan, so figure i can get out from the house that way, CH 7

Plain and simple she has gotten over me a lot, I'm over that, but i do pay child support and I'm not *****ing about paying, it's just she using that money for other things then taken care of our kids, right now i pay 300. a week. and when my kids tell me stories of what's going on then i will get involve, you know 1200.oo plus amonth for child support but then my daughter has to use her B-Day money to buy here own clothes, PLEASE, and yes i can't control the what she does with that money, but i sure can bring it to someones attention, i guess i just might have to call the trustee and found out things for myself and talk to him about it.

[Flamingo]

The OP could look up the case on PACER and see the plan as well as the history of the case to get a better understanding of the process. The request to incur new debt goes through the trustee, so I am not sure if it would show up on the docket, but the plan is definitely there.

You know I thought to post that but left it out inasmuch as when you have situations like this, it could raise all kinds of stuff for him to get upset again. If he lives in the same district as where she filed, he could also go to the courthouse and view the information as it is public record. It seems he was interested in items that appeared after her remarriage. Sometimes less is more...Divorce is sticky, especially after one remarries opening up more issues for him and I wish him the best...

[needbkinfo]

Agaiin let me say to this:

" It seems he was interested in items that appeared after her remarriage. Sometimes less is more...Divorce is sticky, especially after one remarries opening up more issues for him and I wish him the best"
Maybe if i found this forum before her marriage and before mine and her Bankruptcy i would have posted much then at those times, But when divorce was finale over, in the court's, mid 2006, she has done nothing to get me off the house loan, paper work and all, and like i said i do know some what of there work and financial history,, me being in one state her in another ( 500 miles ) apart it not easy for me to go to the court house, and then i read about what CH 13 people are supposed to do when they want to purchase certain things, like talk to trustee. and she has done things in the past when we using my name and false information about me, so like i said house is in my name, I'm trying to protect myself in that way, also funny i didn't not get inform about her BK when they were supposed to notified me.

Yes it's a sticky situation, I'm not going to be a father or person that just sit back and does nothing, i know her past and i know what kind of person her new husband is, and they are the people around my kids 24/7 and i will keep them on there toes the best way i can, so i guess i should just not be there for my kids as a father, and this stuff falls under me being there father, Do i want my ex back no i don't miss her, i miss my kids and what i built for my family and now her new husband and her are still living off of my credit and my name ? i have to make sure they are not,, but if I'm late on child support she know exactly where I'm a,t in the mail comes right to me, i guess child support is my only obligation to my kids, is shouldn't worry about there environment and really a strange man being around them, 13 daughter, 10 year old son, i hear how so many divorce how the father doesn't stay in there kids life, I'm not one of those father's and if my kids see the way they do things, lying, cheating and try to beat the system, well that might think that the way they should be, right is right and wrong is wrong.

And yes I'm going out of bounds for this BK forum. sorry but my passion is not a hate or jealous issue,
SORRY TO ALL