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    #46
    Originally posted by suzyqpug View Post
    Enough!!! What is wrong with you people. You are here to rip apart people. I have an attorney and he knows my story. I do not have to tell you my person business. I only give bits and pieces, thank god i didn't have an addiction, thank god!!!! WOW, Am in in a different world? What is wrong with you people? Do you have a heart? You know what don't answer anymore of my questions. I never specifically email you and ask for your opinion. My god, I have read the one where the women asked if she could bring her kids to a 341. You nearly crushed her. You gurus think you have the right o tlak down to people cause thats exactly what you do. GOODBYE. END OF CONVERSION... CAN THIS ONE BE CLOSED PLEASE... I am alot of health problems that you ar ejust compounding them more. Oh thats right i never told you that neither huh??? GOODBYE
    No my Dear, you are in the different world. You have so many head problems no one is going to be able to deal with you.

    I understand you lashing out here, because we are actually harmless. You are in the psychological projection mode. You cannot dare lash out at your family and friends, and even your attorney. So you come here and post your questions and not liking the answers you get, you lash out at us with all the venom and hatred that you cannot direct at your family and attorney.

    This is called 'Redirected Anger' and 'Projection'.

    You really need to seek the services of a qualified therapist. We can help you no further.

    Good wishes to you~~
    "To go bravely forward is to invite a miracle."

    "Worry is the darkroom where negatives are formed."

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      #47
      Originally posted by lrprn View Post
      Please allow me to clarify so we are all on the same page....unless a member is a troll, posts spam, or deliberately makes trouble here, EVERYONE is welcome and all questions are welcome. It's all too easy to mis-interpret feelings and intent when all we have to go on are written words.

      This thread has strayed off into an "us vs them" area that isn't compatible with the spirit of this forum. Please, folks....no more interpreting about who said what, who meant what, or who was "dissed". Let's get our focus back to what really matters - helping each other and providing emotional support during some of the roughest and most stressful times of our lives. 'Nuf said.
      If I knew it all, would I be here?? Hang in there = Retained attorney 8-06, Filed 12-28-07, Discharge 8-13-08, Finally CLOSED 11-3-09, 3-31-10 AP Dismissed, Informed by incompetent lawyer of CLOSED status, October 14, 2010.

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        #48
        Suzy, I am not into pm's so I am going to give you some advice on your BK from my own experience.

        You obviously found some issues by reading this board (a good thing) and are trying to reverse them. You said you put charges on your friends credit cards and then used two checks to pay them and then you backpeddled and gave a different story. Please understand I do not care about you doing this but I do understand why.

        When I found out about my fraudulent transfer, I tried to backpeddle also by seeing if there was some why I could hide or explain it. It was useless.

        You need to be upfront with the lawyer, tell him the truth and not try to "fix" something that is already done. I promise you it will work out. Don't even sweat it. It might not be an easy task but it will work itself out.

        Although I realized what you were doing when I read your posts, I did not feel compelled to call you up on it. I had hoped that if you stayed here and read enough, you would have figured this out for yourself.

        There are many people in this world that feel compelled to call out someone when they think they are doing something not on the up and up. Sometimes it is valid, but this is not the forum for it. I find it funny that in my life, those people tend to be the religious ones. They do things in the name of helping and guiding, but it is very easy to see through their judgmental behavior. (please no one call ME up on my religious statement since I said people that I KNOW do this and it is not a blanket statement.)


        If nothing else, please be truthful with the lawyer so your mind will be at ease.
        Although I agree that you took Cali's statement wrongly, I agree with you on the others, but it is ALSO not for you to judge them by a few statements either.

        Stay calm and educate yourself so you can make the best decisions.

        I know I said I give up on this, but, hey, I am a mother and explaining things over and over and over is what we do best

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          #49
          Originally posted by lrprn View Post
          Please allow me to clarify so we are all on the same page....unless a member is a troll, posts spam, or deliberately makes trouble here, EVERYONE is welcome and all questions are welcome. It's all too easy to mis-interpret feelings and intent when all we have to go on are written words.

          This thread has strayed off into an "us vs them" area that isn't compatible with the spirit of this forum. Please, folks....no more interpreting about who said what, who meant what, or who was "dissed". Let's get our focus back to what really matters - helping each other and providing emotional support during some of the roughest and most stressful times of our lives. 'Nuf said.
          Ahhh, someone else understands that the us and them nonsense is not helpful. You also must have had management courses at some point in your life. LOL

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            #50
            Originally posted by fltoo View Post
            Suzy, I am not into pm's so I am going to give you some advice on your BK from my own experience.

            You obviously found some issues by reading this board (a good thing) and are trying to reverse them. You said you put charges on your friends credit cards and then used two checks to pay them and then you backpeddled and gave a different story. Please understand I do not care about you doing this but I do understand why.

            When I found out about my fraudulent transfer, I tried to backpeddle also by seeing if there was some why I could hide or explain it. It was useless.

            You need to be upfront with the lawyer, tell him the truth and not try to "fix" something that is already done. I promise you it will work out. Don't even sweat it. It might not be an easy task but it will work itself out.

            Although I realized what you were doing when I read your posts, I did not feel compelled to call you up on it. I had hoped that if you stayed here and read enough, you would have figured this out for yourself.

            There are many people in this world that feel compelled to call out someone when they think they are doing something not on the up and up. Sometimes it is valid, but this is not the forum for it. I find it funny that in my life, those people tend to be the religious ones. They do things in the name of helping and guiding, but it is very easy to see through their judgmental behavior. (please no one call ME up on my religious statement since I said people that I KNOW do this and it is not a blanket statement.)


            If nothing else, please be truthful with the lawyer so your mind will be at ease.
            Although I agree that you took Cali's statement wrongly, I agree with you on the others, but it is ALSO not for you to judge them by a few statements either.

            Stay calm and educate yourself so you can make the best decisions.

            I know I said I give up on this, but, hey, I am a mother and explaining things over and over and over is what we do best
            Clap, Clap, Clap, to you. None could say it better.
            If I knew it all, would I be here?? Hang in there = Retained attorney 8-06, Filed 12-28-07, Discharge 8-13-08, Finally CLOSED 11-3-09, 3-31-10 AP Dismissed, Informed by incompetent lawyer of CLOSED status, October 14, 2010.

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              #51
              Originally posted by AngelinaCat View Post
              No my Dear, you are in the different world. You have so many head problems no one is going to be able to deal with you.

              I understand you lashing out here, because we are actually harmless. You are in the psychological projection mode. You cannot dare lash out at your family and friends, and even your attorney. So you come here and post your questions and not liking the answers you get, you lash out at us with all the venom and hatred that you cannot direct at your family and attorney.

              This is called 'Redirected Anger' and 'Projection'.

              You really need to seek the services of a qualified therapist. We can help you no further.

              Good wishes to you~~

              This is truly the most disgusting thing I have seen written on this board.

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                #52
                Originally posted by fltoo View Post
                This is truly the most disgusting thing I have seen written on this board.
                Guess what: it is the truth as I see it. Enough now.
                "To go bravely forward is to invite a miracle."

                "Worry is the darkroom where negatives are formed."

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                  #53
                  Ok, stepping back.. Suzy, I don't want you to leave. I have to say, I can't judge any decisions you made in the past to try and help yourself because I did some things I regret too. I truly mean that and I hope you know that you are as important here as everyone else.

                  The fact is, you do have some issues that need to be resolved, or figured out, to get through this.. as justplaintired pointed out. I'll help as much as I can and offer support.

                  fltoo -- right on the money also. I wish I could explain myself as well in type. LOL
                  "You can never get enough of what you don't need to make you happy."
                  6/16/08: Attorney approached lenders to surrender old home
                  8/26/08: Met w/attorney RE: filing BK
                  9/29/08: Filing Chapter 7

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                    #54
                    This thread is now closed to further posting. Move along.....move along.
                    I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advice nor a statement of the law - only a lawyer can provide those.

                    06/01/06 - Filed Ch 13
                    06/28/06 - 341 Meeting
                    07/18/06 - Confirmation Hearing - not confirmed, 3 objections
                    10/05/06 - Hearing to resolve 2 trustee objections
                    01/24/07 - Judge dismisses mortgage company objection
                    09/27/07 - Confirmed at last!
                    06/10/11 - Trustee confirms all payments made
                    08/10/11 - DISCHARGED !

                    10/02/11 - CASE CLOSED
                    Countdown: 60 months paid, 0 months to go

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