Land - What to do with it?

[Flamingo]

Flaming, I enjoy your thinly veiled response to me. And it sounds like you were deeply burned by someone, by erroneously listening to one persons advice without checking its validity. If I was "trolling" for business, wouldn't I list some link or some advertising in my personal contact. Thankfully, I am well beyond someone to mine the internet for business, and even though it doesn't warrant additional comment, I work only for attorney's and so how would I benefit from bringing clients in. Attorneys are barred from giving out any bonuses related to profits or production. Please do not convince yourself that you are the only one on here for altruistic purposes. I, as I am sure many people on here, are happy to help someone with no personal gain. If I have any motive, it is that so many people have the wrong idea about how they will lose everything in BK, so they destroy their 401ks, equity in their home,etc., staving off the inevitable just because they were misinformed about BK, and I would like to help stop that. Your sense of distrust of people is almost pathological, because you don't even know me but you assumed I have some Macchiavellian purpose. Does your church and family know about your Calvinistic views?

Unfortunately although you think otherwise, my response was directed at AngelinaCatHub's comments in his posting and my ideas to resolve issues that may arise in this forum - if you took it beyond that, that is not my problem. May I say that anyone can go back into your numerous postings and see all the references you make as to contacts you have that can help people, references to locations of your business, etc., etc. and it is you yourself that have brought all this upon yourself. It is how you are expressing yourself in that manner that could raise questions. I brought it to your attention because I thought it was quite obvious as did a few other folks on here woh contacted me asking me questions. As to your last few sentences, if you have the need to psychoanalyze anonymous internet posters in a bankruptcy forum, there are quite a few medical forums on the internet I am sure who can discuss your problems with you maybe privately.

Let's cut the crap and the playgound nonsense, show some class and act like the adults we are. You seem to be an intelligent person and I am by no means low on the IQ scale either so I am done with this if you are.

[BKParalegal]

Let's cut the crap and the playgound nonsense, show some class and act like the adults we are. You seem to be an intelligent person and I am by no means low on the IQ scale either so I am done with this if you are.

You request a treaty just as you throw a parting insult in calling me classless, and so who is pulling the playground nonsense? You are no different then a child who is frustrated so you are taking your bat and ball and going home. I did not request this tete-a-tete, but it was you that questioned my integrity on this forum and yes I will defend it to the end. I am sorry that you have feelings of inadequacy and so resort to these offhand ripostes.

It is always in your nature to try to chase away people who threaten your standing? I weep for your mutliple ex-husbands(not a thinly veiled parting shot )

[Flamingo]

You request a treaty just as you throw a parting insult in calling me classless, and so who is pulling the playground nonsense? You are no different then a child who is frustrated so you are taking your bat and ball and going home. I did not request this tete-a-tete, but it was you that questioned my integrity on this forum and yes I will defend it to the end. I am sorry that you have feelings of inadequacy and so resort to these offhand ripostes.

It is always in your nature to try to chase away people who threaten your standing? I weep for your mutliple ex-husbands(not a thinly veiled parting shot )

I said "Let's" show some class (that is plural by the way)...I put my cards on the table to try to resolve this and you did defend your integrity on this forum and I provided the information to you that resulted in the questions being asked and the matter to me is resolved. I have no "standing" in this forum to defend - I am as anonymous as the next person on here and I have been on here two years in the various threads on here, not all BK related. No one knows who I am or who you are. And I don't really think anyone cares.

For the record, I have one ex-husband who is deceased so you can weep over his grave (do you normally weep for people you don't know?). I am in a long-term second marriage. It's a shame you have to result to parting shots as you do to get a retort....you are acting like trolls I have seen in the past on other forums...always looking for a way to defend themselves but still doing having to insult. Please again reread the last line again of my previous posting.

It's a shame this thread got diverted from the OP's original posting - my apologies to the OP.

[BKParalegal]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]...you are acting like trolls I have seen in the past on other forums...always looking for a way to defend themselves but still doing having to insult.FONT]

Your hipocrasy is without limits.

If you wonder why you aren't invited to many social functions, don't think it is because people hate your fondue.

[AngelinaCatHub]

Errrr, well, I didn't mean to say much, but, I feel there is a conflict here, and I sure don't want this to be a problem.

I feel both parties are very helpful. I wish no problem as I have seen this before and closed down my own forum over just what I have seen here lately. Only my opinion. 'Hub

[AngelinaCat]

I just wanted to see what the latest advice to Gymbo is about her land--thought I could learn something.......

[berrymom31]

BKParalegal..when I first started posting here I found a couple of long timers comments attacking on a personal level and it really caught me off guard as I was desperate for answers and distraught. It was sort of like the first couple of days at a new school.. One even sent me PM's that were horrible! I, for one, have never considered the fact you were trolling for business, but I have not read all your posts either. But do keep in mind that because you represent yourself as a paralegal in the field that some may put a lot of faith in what you tell them instead of asking questions of their attys. I would just keep helping, if you are so inclined and ignore the posters who give their opinions that are not about the OP and are unwarranted.

Flamingo, I have nothing against you...you have helped me many times...and I'm sure you have your reasons for your posts....I am just posting about my experiences here......

[BKParalegal]

Thanks berry, funny thing was/is, I have two full time jobs(this is not funny), I go to church, I play with my son, etc. and while I was doing research on a case, I came across this forum and I thought " how cool that there is this forum out there for people who need advice about BK" and since my second job is working from home and I use 2 large 26" screens, I can have a lot going on at one time. So I thought, (my name here), you have blessed in so many ways, why don't you take some time out of your busy life to give back and share some of your knowledge to people who are struggling in an area that you know quite a bit. And it felt really cool, especially since I work around experts in BK all day, we don't ever talk about the basics anymore. My faith calls for us to be servants to everyone and I know I never can or will do enough to serve others, so when I found this website, I thought what a great way to serve others. But as the saying goes, no good deed goes unpunished. I get questioned by Flaming about my intentions and integrity on this forum. To be frank, she has ruined the joy I was getting by serving and bringing some levity to what is normally a serious topic. Flaming is a reminder to me and to others that there are bitter, jealous people who will go out of their way to bring people down due to their own feelings of inadequacy and it saddens me. I guess this wasn't that funny after all.

[Priceless ProSe]

Something is defenitely in the water over the past week or so . Did you guys/gals all quit smoking with me? that would explain alot. If you guys did quit smoking it was somewhere in the neighborhood of posts 13 to 15 of this thread.

Lets all just agree to disagree, and promise never to question eachothers motives anymore. I personally dont care why anyone is on here, paid legal help sells itself (kinda like crack right?, no marketing campaign needed).

You two are never gonna like each other, but take it out in a constructive way like outresearching one another and posting better (and contradictory) answers to each others statements (not personal), that sounds like fun right?

The thing about internet (message board) arguments is, no one is gonna come out and say they were wrong, or they mistakenly started it. Too much pride involved right? It is like a marriage counseling, its not about whos at fault, or who is wrong, its about why are we arguing (what are the underlying issues).

In the end I just have to ask, do I look fat in this dress?

[Flamingo]

Thanks berry, funny thing was/is, I have two full time jobs(this is not funny), I go to church, I play with my son, etc. and while I was doing research on a case, I came across this forum and I thought " how cool that there is this forum out there for people who need advice about BK" and since my second job is working from home and I use 2 large 26" screens, I can have a lot going on at one time. So I thought, (my name here), you have blessed in so many ways, why don't you take some time out of your busy life to give back and share some of your knowledge to people who are struggling in an area that you know quite a bit. And it felt really cool, especially since I work around experts in BK all day, we don't ever talk about the basics anymore. My faith calls for us to be servants to everyone and I know I never can or will do enough to serve others, so when I found this website, I thought what a great way to serve others. But as the saying goes, no good deed goes unpunished. I get questioned by Flaming about my intentions and integrity on this forum. To be frank, she has ruined the joy I was getting by serving and bringing some levity to what is normally a serious topic. Flaming is a reminder to me and to others that there are bitter, jealous people who will go out of their way to bring people down due to their own feelings of inadequacy and it saddens me. I guess this wasn't that funny after all.

I swore I wasn't going to respond to this but in a posting just this morning in another thread you wrote: "I tend not to respond to anything but the legal questions, and I have been posting quite a bit on here, so I feel compelled to explain where I am coming from just a bit." In the remainder of that full response nothing was mentioned about what you state in your posting directly above. No one is doubting your legal expertise or experience and I mentioned to you several times in postings how I admired your postings, experience and humor and also business sense. However, you have taken this to a level beyond what I thought had been resolved when you explained things on here about your situation. You continued to insult and now claim to be a victim with me as the person taking away all your joy in posting. I am far from bitter and I certainly am not jealous of you and I have no feelings of inadequacy as to you or anyone else and I have certainly never brought anyone down in this forum and hundreds can attest to that. I tried to resolve this reasonably and I am sorry you continue to have issues. But now bringing your religion and feelings of persecution into this is just beyond. I am not the only person on this forum who questioned things as to your postings - I just took it upon myself to ask. For that I apologize and I am sorry you took things the wrong way but it was just the way you were submitting your postings that had some of us confused. You are brand new here and no one knows you. That's all. In fact, your posting above would have been a marvelous blog or introduction to this forum as to you for all of us.

[TEW]

is it safe to come out now ?

[BKParalegal]

Flaming,
I haven't seen this much backpedalling since Clinton was in office.

I love where you say " I am sorry you took things the wrong way but it was just the way you were submitting your posting..."

Please Flaming, enlighten us or just me on how I am to take your first comment to me

"but I sort of suspected from the start, and you just confirmed, that you taking the time to post on here was to benefit your business in some way."

Should I take that comment as friendly way of asking me why I am being so helpful to others???

How long have you suffered from short term memory loss. Actually I think there is a movie based on your condition called Memento. Face it, you stepped over the line, I didn't back down from your snide comments and now you are sitting there with egg on your face. And if being a "Guru" on this forum was your cathartic outlet and you felt threatened by me, well I am truly sorry that you placed your self worth on the internet. You should look straight up for that. But please don't deny, your initial statement was anything but inflammatory, otherwise among everything else, you will be a liar as well.

[arkienurse]

is it safe to come out now ?

Evidently not

[justplaintired]

Well I like you both. I think your both smart and I appreciate both your opinions. I just thought maybe you'd appreciate knowing how much you're appreciated by this forum.

BkParalegal, you remind me of my attorney's paralegal and she is totally awesome, I think it's great you come on here and answer so many questions.

Flamingo, you always give good advice, I think you've been threw the BK process and I find your advice very helpful.

So girls and I am assuming your both girls, you're both awesome with your advice and all us appreciate it, so please don't leave. I'm getting a little worried about this forum so far this week it appears we've lost a few members, and I don't want either of you going anywhere. Ok I had to say that, before someone gets mad and leaves.

[liz417]

Well I like you both. I think your both smart and I appreciate both your opinions. I just thought maybe you'd appreciate knowing how much you're appreciated by this forum.

BkParalegal, you remind me of my attorney's paralegal and she is totally awesome, I think it's great you come on here and answer so many questions.

Flamingo, you always give good advice, I think you've been threw the BK process and I find your advice very helpful.

So girls and I am assuming your both girls, you're both awesome with your advice and all us appreciate it, so please don't leave. I'm getting a little worried about this forum so far this week it appears we've lost a few members, and I don't want either of you going anywhere. Ok I had to say that, before someone gets mad and leaves.

Thank you...well said....now go duct somewhere!!!!!!