Was I stupid or what?

[bulletproof77]

and I'll bet he's never seen the inside of a medical school and somehow I don't think that bikes a coming back.......if he harrasses you, just call the police...trust me we LOVE creeps like that...no trouble at all...

[merime]

the plot thickens, I guess Iam a even bigger fool. He lost his job, so goodbye 5,000!

[hereforinfo]

Isn't your husband going to be angry when he finds out about the boyfriend?

http://www.bkforum.com/showthread.php?t=45530

http://www.bkforum.com/showthread.php?t=44425

[BigJohn]

the plot thickens, I guess Iam a even bigger fool. He lost his job, so goodbye 5,000!

I thought you gave him $1000?

[justbroke]

I thought you gave him $1000?

She bought him a $5K bike.

[BKOnce]

Isn't your husband going to be angry when he finds out about the boyfriend?

http://www.bkforum.com/showthread.php?t=45530

http://www.bkforum.com/showthread.php?t=44425

Oh my God... No wonder, this is another Karma Drama!!!!

Now, I beleive everything has its Causes & Effects!!.. If that was so true, you deserve it... da beatings...

[merime]

My husband left me 16 years ago, physically and emotionally. Yes, I gave him $1000, and he put the rest on my credit card. I do deserve what came of it all, and yes I know what I did was unforgivable. I only had an emotional affair, It was in no way physical.

[hereforinfo]

My husband left me 16 years ago, physically and emotionally.

I don't know how to leave my husband because I dont have a job, but the kids are miserable too.

Then there's the claim that your husband only gave you $50/month allowance to buy food and pay expenses. Yet you had $1000 to give the boyfriend? I am getting more and more confused.

[merime]

Then there's the claim that your husband only gave you $50/month allowance to buy food and pay expenses. Yet you had $1000 to give the boyfriend? I am getting more and more confused.

My friend charged it on his credit card. Also, my mom had given me that money. I feel like the stupidist person alive for believing he would pay me back. The bike was bought on Sept 3rd. He said he would pay a little offf at a tiome, but then he got fired and has no job. I really thought he would at leaast be paying something. At first right after the bike was bought , I tried to get him to return it -the very next day. I regretted that mistake to believe him from day one. I wanted to call the police, but the only proof I have that I was not in a clear mind to make that purchase is the store owner and iam afraid I waited too long anyways. Trust me I could kick myself.

[hereforinfo]

My friend charged it on his credit card. Also, my mom had given me that money. I feel like the stupidist person alive for believing he would pay me back. The bike was bought on Sept 3rd.

The day after you posted here asking what happens when you can't pay your credit cards? The week after you first asked how to file bankruptcy? Your mom, who you claim is in debt $100k and only has $900/month income gave you $1000 that you gave your boyfriend? You had some major surgery the week before Sept 3, that rendered you so weak that you couldn't walk to the register, sign your name, or figure out what was going on. Yet, you were posting on there throughout that week and on the day you supposedly went to the bike shop.

You're a fun troll. But you really need to keep track of the stuff you're posting.

[merime]

I never claimed to have it "together" or I would not be asking for help./ Yes, all that happened in one month. Kind of like a huge volcano happened in my life. My mom is in debt, but had that money saved as an emergency fund. I had major surgery and made some horrible mistakes during my recovery. Its only after being hit down so low that I can't even get out of bed that I realized this may be a good place to start. I have had some posts that have helped me more than you can imagine. Probably saved my life. I truly apologize if I offended you.

[backtoschool]

I never claimed to have it "together" or I would not be asking for help./ Yes, all that happened in one month. Kind of like a huge volcano happened in my life. My mom is in debt, but had that money saved as an emergency fund. I had major surgery and made some horrible mistakes during my recovery. Its only after being hit down so low that I can't even get out of bed that I realized this may be a good place to start. I have had some posts that have helped me more than you can imagine. Probably saved my life. I truly apologize if I offended you.

Merime, please ignore all judgmental posts. Most of us here are NOT judging you and want to help. Like I said in another post, you don't owe ANYONE an explanation or an apology.

Coming to this board to get help is the first step to your new life. Don't let anyone else's negativity keep you from continuing the great job you are doing.

[killinstinct]

I agree. We're here to help and encourage you! No need to apologize.

[hereforinfo]

I never claimed to have it "together" or I would not be asking for help./ Yes, all that happened in one month. Kind of like a huge volcano happened in my life. My mom is in debt, but had that money saved as an emergency fund. I had major surgery and made some horrible mistakes during my recovery. Its only after being hit down so low that I can't even get out of bed that I realized this may be a good place to start. I have had some posts that have helped me more than you can imagine. Probably saved my life. I truly apologize if I offended you.

It's not that I'm judging, it's that I don't think you're real. You said you were too incoherent to sign your name at the bike shop on Sept 2, but a quick search shows you were actually posting here that day. You also said the major surgery happened the week before the bike shop incident, but you were posting on here throughout that week. It just doesn't make sense and your stories contradict each other. I think it's pretty obvious you are a troll.

[AngelinaCat]

Okay, everyone. I think we have worn out this thread. The OP has gotten good, sound advice that she can do with what she wishes, and now I think it is time to call it a night.