Wassup with AP when no C7 claim?

[Flamingo]

LOL Flamingo, at the person who talks to themselves in the forum!!!

There is a term for that - called "sock puppets."

[fltoo]

LOL Flamingo, at the person who talks to themselves in the forum!!!

[Flamingo]

The person who gave you all this misery has a mental illness. Cyberstalkers are bullies who derive their pleasure from causing others pain. Your Sociopath posting is the best. They dwell in forums and go in and out as various IDs to avoid detection. Some create several IDs and carry on conversations even with his/her self on the same forum. Internet trolling has been recognized as a mental illness. All one has to do is google "internet troll" and it's unbelieve what goes on and the problems it can cause. I personally knew of one person who was stalked and received emails from the stalker that he was coming to visit her that night as he obtained her address and posted it to prove it. She had to call the police and contacted her internet provider She had never given him her name and/or address. She had no idea how he obtained it. She assumes he hacked into her computer.

I certainly hope this mess with this person works out so you can get beyond the misery he has created.

[AngelinaCat]

I would not call it luck. I would call it smart that my name, pic and personal info is not on the net.

BTW, to protect yourself, google your name every few months and make sure nothing comes up, unless you want it to. If not, contact the website and ask that your name be removed. Most oblige.

Hi fltoo: Yes you are right. 'Hub should never have posted his real name. However, this was 8 years ago when our local paper started to convert to a presence online. They had a section called ‘Letters to the Editor’. We mistakenly thought that we were addressing the real ‘Letters to the Editor’ in the newspaper. It was several weeks before we found that that the print version and the online version were two very different and diametrically opposed entities.

By that time the damage was done and it escalated from there.

For the record, I never posted my real name, but all the Adversary had to do was search online public records to find me. BTW to everyone, check out if your DLs and such are online. Eight years ago, the laws started mandating that public records be put online, but personal information such as SS numbers were NOT redacted. This is attempting to be corrected as we type.

I say that you are LUCKY if you are not targeted, because in your everyday dealings with people, you never know who is actually going to turn out to be a stalker.

I collected reams of paperwork of articles when I thought we had a chance of doing SOMETHING against this guy, of other people who had innocently given a name or number to someone at work, or a chance meeting at church, even.

So you just never know. Thanks!

[Mi Bankruptcy]

Hmm. It sounds like it is time to build some blogs and do a little search engine optimization(SEO) about your experiences with your town and community(sheriff, judge etc). Do this anonymously and then tie all together and present it to "dateline" 12-15 blogs about cyber stalking and lack of rights should do the trick before you reveal your story.

[Bandit]

I was out of town when this thread started, that is why I missed it with the other thread on Cyber Crime.

Hub, check your PM when you have time.

[Bandit]

I would not call it luck. I would call it smart that my name, pic and personal info is not on the net.

BTW, to protect yourself, google your name every few months and make sure nothing comes up, unless you want it to. If not, contact the website and ask that your name be removed. Most oblige.

Good advice.

[fltoo]

I would not call it luck. I would call it smart that my name, pic and personal info is not on the net.

BTW, to protect yourself, google your name every few months and make sure nothing comes up, unless you want it to. If not, contact the website and ask that your name be removed. Most oblige.

[AngelinaCat]

This is so typical of an OUT OF CONTROL forum and why forums have moderators and the ban function.

Sounds like you two just got into a personal fight that started on the internet. If you are truly ready to stop, why are you telling us to pm you and giving out personal info about the guy?

His sexual orientation and religious beliefs are none of our business. You seem to cite these as proof that he is a bad man. He just might be a bad guy, but these are not the reasons, so why mention them?

Ignore the whole thing. Judges recognize frivolous lawsuits if that is what it is.

Hi fltoo: no, the PERSON is out of control. If you have read the prior posts, his forum is not the only medium he has used. He has used signs outside of his business. He has filed numerous frivolous lawsuits against us--non brought to trial. He does not want to go to trial, only to cost us money trying to defend ourselves. He has turned in numerous complaints against us accusing of of plotting to harm him, etc., and his business partner a former police sergeant has falsified evidence against us, and the list goes on and on.

If you don't want to view the url, then don't ask. However, we have been slandered and libeled all over the place and have been harassed out of three jobs because of it.

If you haven't been the victim of cyberstalking consider yourself VERY lucky. It is becoming all too common.

[fltoo]

This is so typical of an OUT OF CONTROL forum and why forums have moderators and the ban function.

Sounds like you two just got into a personal fight that started on the internet. If you are truly ready to stop, why are you telling us to pm you and giving out personal info about the guy?

His sexual orientation and religious beliefs are none of our business. You seem to cite these as proof that he is a bad man. He just might be a bad guy, but these are not the reasons, so why mention them?

Ignore the whole thing. Judges recognize frivolous lawsuits if that is what it is.

[AngelinaCatHub]

but you know who he is now, everything he's doing is out in the open. all of that previous legwork is done. he's awful.

can you get a restraining order? anything? he should not be allowed to even utter your names in any threatening capacity, especially defamatory -- much less anything more corporeal.

[AngelinaCat]

W/o being able to put his fingers on the keyboard RIGHT NOW, we can do nothing. All the prior work and evidence is stale.

[soleprop]

but you know who he is now, everything he's doing is out in the open. all of that previous legwork is done. he's awful.

can you get a restraining order? anything? he should not be allowed to even utter your names in any threatening capacity, especially defamatory -- much less anything more corporeal.

[AngelinaCatHub]

Many of you know one of these.

Profile of the Sociopath
This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.



Glibness and Superficial Charm


Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.


Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."


Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.


Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.


Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.


Incapacity for Love


Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.


Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.


Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.


Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.


Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.


Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.


Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.


Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

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[AngelinaCatHub]

good lord have you no rights? this is harrassive, it seems to me. surely you could write this up and ask for pro bono representation? there has to be a legal eagle out there somewhere that wants to make a name and if ever there was a case for it, you guys are it.

strings need pulling, a lawsuit needs filing regarding the harrassment you've suffered. if it were me i'd get a lawyer to work up a lawsuit against this jack@ss suing him for a dollar amount/hour of the time he has caused you suffering, the loss of wages, all of the legal fees, any medical bills he might have incurred (anxiety, stress, etc), and of course, defamation of character. even if you have to give everything you might win in that lawsuit to your pro bono lawyer and c7 creditors, it'd be worth it for him to realize that you don't have to be a big fish to play big, you just have to be fed the hell up and backed into a corner.

the only positive thing i can say regarding this guy is that he won't be able to bother you in heaven. he is going to have some karma to work out for a long long while. ward yourselves with positivity and light, and fight the darkness. man i would be in the corner with my back up like a hissing cat right now.

it just isn't right.