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    Scared,Confused,Worried, and slowly going crazy!

    Hello,

    Seems I am in the same boat of many here and others throughout the country. I am slowly loosing the battle and am to the point to give up. I feel terrible I have gotten to this point and dragging the family through this mess.

    A little background:

    I am/was in the Real Estate arena. 2007 was a good year for me I was close to 6 figures. I was moving investment properties as well as helping the general public buy/sell homes. I was moving forward and doing well. I was able to pay my debts enjoy life and continue to build a nice portfolio.

    In the last 3-4 years I have acquired some rental properties. I currently have 4 rentals and my personal residence. Well along came 2008. The market began to slow tenants were skipping out or paying late. Enough where it was not worth evicting but effected my bottom line. I may have only made $30K if I am lucky for last year. I started putting expenses on CC that were for the business but personally guaranteed.

    With all that being said I have in the range of $60K in CC debt that i am liable for. I have since started back to a regular 8-5 job but currently only making $40K a year. This is making my personal responsibilities such as mortgage, utilities, day care etc but I have nothing for the business debt (personal). I am at my whits end.

    We are trying to work the Dave Ramsey plan. Which is good in theory but I can just not get ahead or even level. My wife works for one of the big banks that is merging and we are not sure how stable her job is now or in the future. We just pray we can ride it out.

    I have ALWAYS paid my bills and feel a moral obligation to do so but at this time I have gone into survival mode, I have one CC that is getting to be around 75 days late, others are now starting to fall late. I am trying to sell the rental homes but with others not being able to get loans it is a vicious cycle.

    One rental home has about $20K in equity and if I could sell it I would be golden. I really do not know what to do. My phone rings consistently with people wanting $$. Where did I go wrong? I feel like a failure and hate that every time the kids ask to do something its we do not have the $$ and to stop asking.

    HELP!!!!

    #2
    Once you started using your credit cards to pay for daily expenses, that is the moment you knew things would probably never be the same unless someone knocked on your door with a new job paying what you made before. You did nothing wrong except not think that the worst could happen and the bubble could burst as many are finding out now. In plain words now you have to change your lifestyle which is the hardest thing for anyone who had a big income before (we know, we've been there...). You have to figure out if you will be able to come anywhere close to what you were making before and if that will take effect in the very near future. If not, you have to stop all spending and credit card use or you are going to just get more in debt as you go on trying not to file bankruptcy. Next you will start robbing Peter to pay Paul and as your credit cards near their limits you will realize you are actually stuck with no way out and no money. And if your wife loses her job in the interim it will occur quicker.

    What I suggest doing is getting a free initial consultation with a BK attorney to find out exactly where you stand as to all this so you know how to plan. Take with you a complete listing of all your debts, monthly payments, sources of income, paystubs, listing of all assets and accounts and the most recent copies of your state and federal tax returns.

    Best of luck to you.
    _________________________________________
    Filed 5 Year Chapter 13: April 2002
    Early Buy-Out: April 2006
    Discharge: August 2006

    "A credit card is a snake in your pocket"

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      #3
      Thanks for the reply. Yeah I saw the writing on the wall when all the big banks were going under. I have closed all CC since August as not to use them anymore. More of a preventive measure. Some of the cards I am on the "assist" program. Which still is hard to meet the minimums.

      I guess it would not hurt for the free consultation. However being at a new job (still in the probation period) its kind off hard to ask for time off etc....

      I wonder if anyone works Sat?

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        #4
        Originally posted by worried2009 View Post
        Thanks for the reply. Yeah I saw the writing on the wall when all the big banks were going under. I have closed all CC since August as not to use them anymore. More of a preventive measure. Some of the cards I am on the "assist" program. Which still is hard to meet the minimums.

        I guess it would not hurt for the free consultation. However being at a new job (still in the probation period) its kind off hard to ask for time off etc....

        I wonder if anyone works Sat?
        Many lawyers have evening and Saturday appointments...
        _________________________________________
        Filed 5 Year Chapter 13: April 2002
        Early Buy-Out: April 2006
        Discharge: August 2006

        "A credit card is a snake in your pocket"

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          #5
          Originally posted by worried2009 View Post
          Thanks for the reply. Yeah I saw the writing on the wall when all the big banks were going under. I have closed all CC since August as not to use them anymore. More of a preventive measure. Some of the cards I am on the "assist" program. Which still is hard to meet the minimums.

          I guess it would not hurt for the free consultation. However being at a new job (still in the probation period) its kind off hard to ask for time off etc....

          I wonder if anyone works Sat?
          Hi
          My attorney doesn't have weekend hours, but we were able to get a Sat appointment just by requesting it (hubby works 2 hours away M-F). It wouldn't hurt to ask! Hang in there and good luck!
          May 2008 Hired 1st Attorney/Stopped paying CCs
          May 21, 2009 Retained 2nd Attorney
          May 28th - Filed for Ch 7 (FINALLY!)
          9/11/09 - DISCHARGED!!!!

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            #6
            Hang in there Worried, no matter the outcome of all this you will be better off in the long run.
            Filed 10/20/08
            Discharged 1/27/09

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